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How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 8:12:54 AM

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I am not in the lifestyle and am married in a vanilla marriage. My husband caught me cheating and gave me the option to forgive me provided I agree to be seriously punished by a sadistic Dom/Mistress in a series of sessions. He made me post on CM that he's looking for someone to his liking for the job. He'll attend my ordeal but won't interfere if all goes according to the pre-agreed script. I don't know the details but know that I will be beaten severely on my buttocks, tits, inner thighs and most of all on my pussy. I have never experienced beatings other than light spankings and I am terrified. Can anyone offer me advice what to do , if anything , to be able to endure this? Shall I try to take painkillers secretly before the sessions? Is it better to scream or keep quite as muchh as possible? Any advice is welcome!

RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 8:35:50 AM

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No self respecting Dominant would agree to beat a submissive that is being blackmailed into the beating. Beyond the nonconsensual part, it's considered assault.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 8:59:14 AM

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This reeks of epic wank fantasy. What's the watermark at the corner of your pic? Did you forget to remove that after borrowing the pic?

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 9:38:52 AM

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Leave him and work on yourself so you can be in a relationship where you don't have to cheat to get your needs met or enter into open relationships where having sex with other people is permitted.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 1:55:44 PM

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This comes across as a major sock - I don't know any dominants or sadists that would session someone not in the lifestyle - or at least curious.

If this is some weird way for the OP to find a dominant whilst married, she needs to be a bit more open about her intentions.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 2:02:23 PM

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I smell bulllllll hockey

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 2:15:25 PM

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Smells of entrapment.
But someone will bite.
OTOH...
leave him n stop cheating.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 7:04:47 PM

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My advice is to go brush your teeth and get ready for bed. Oh and stay off moms computer in the future.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 10/27/2016 8:24:08 PM

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I am not in the lifestyle and am married in a vanilla marriage. My husband caught me cheating and gave me the option to forgive me provided I agree to be seriously punished by a sadistic Dom/Mistress in a series of sessions. He made me post on CM that he's looking for someone to his liking for the job. He'll attend my ordeal but won't interfere if all goes according to the pre-agreed script. I don't know the details but know that I will be beaten severely on my buttocks, tits, inner thighs and most of all on my pussy. I have never experienced beatings other than light spankings and I am terrified. Can anyone offer me advice what to do , if anything , to be able to endure this? Shall I try to take painkillers secretly before the sessions? Is it better to scream or keep quite as muchh as possible? Any advice is welcome!

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 1/29/2017 4:19:55 PM

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Fake people, on collarspace...No!!

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/19/2017 1:06:09 PM

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So...nobody is qualified to answer the question? Damn, I was actually looking forward to a interesting thread for once. What if this is the Op's kink? It could happen.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/19/2017 3:41:53 PM

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If this is the OP's kink, then the OP is into BDSM. So the whole post is fantasy.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/19/2017 3:52:00 PM

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If you're tied up and can't move, you have no choice but to endure it.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/20/2017 1:36:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTE

What if this is the Op's kink? It could happen.

If it's the OP's kink:

1) They are lying to the person that is providing the beating about the context of what is happening.

2) I would seriously question if the person providing the beating is trustworthy since they are willing to get into a situation where they believe it isn't consensual (even if unbeknownst to them it is consensual)

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/20/2017 3:37:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: LTE

What if this is the Op's kink? It could happen.

If it's the OP's kink:

1) They are lying to the person that is providing the beating about the context of what is happening.

2) I would seriously question if the person providing the beating is trustworthy since they are willing to get into a situation where they believe it isn't consensual (even if unbeknownst to them it is consensual)

I like your reply. But consider...

1) When I read the OP, I definitely see "this is my kink" all over it. She is fantasizing and acting it out in real actions and a real post. ===> KINK.
2) I think a Dom can handle figuring out if it is consensual. I can. Could. Would.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/20/2017 3:39:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22

If this is the OP's kink, then the OP is into BDSM. So the whole post is fantasy.

Yes. A fantasy she wants to act out. Kink. Pure and simple. It should be encouraged by real answers based on that premise.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/20/2017 5:00:13 PM

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I'm not here to fulfill someone's fantasy. In fact, I resent the hell out of someone using a forum as a vehicle to get their wank on. If they have an honest question about how to get their fantasies met, that's one thing , but the idea that I should encourage someone to use me and my (fairly)good will to masturbate or get aroused to is not on. If they want that , there are any number of 1-800 numbers they can call.

I hope that this is not what you are projecting, but it had troll all over it.

And for you to think that this forum is here to encourage fantasy people is a little troubling, since for the most part, we can only think of others actions in the light of our own - as in, you think it is ok for people to con others.

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RE: How to endure beatings? - 2/21/2017 3:04:40 PM

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If it were me I would throw the asshole out but since you didn't have a problem cheating in the first place maybe you are truly made for each other. In that case I would suggest punishing you by cutting off your access to online. That should hurt.

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