HereAndWhere
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I see that I'm >very< late to this tea party, with so many excellent responses but I want to chime in all the same. This is an excellent *cautionary* tale of what NOTto do. Rather, the OP took the >correct< action of stepping away. The NOT to do here is for the "Dom" in question. That's a considerable, outrageous demand to make of anyone, especially after such a brief period of time. As stated, if this were an interest, an objective, perhaps. Always presuming these are real people, real situations, and not "Letters to Forum"., there was a fundamental disconnect between these two individuals. If we can accept that this was an "expectation" of the "Dom", it probbly should have been communicated as such. It reads more like a "I'm done with you; let me create a scenario to help you on your way".
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