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stef -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/2/2016 11:40:58 AM)
Did they finally say fuck it to that stupidity? There is still the "Invite a Friend" entry in the account pull-down menu.

DesFIP -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/2/2016 12:37:11 PM)
The invite thing was put in place to allow admin to deal with the scammers. It worked, the Polish scammer is no more.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/3/2016 8:45:57 AM)
Wayward5oul I mention her you will not, overlooking the fact she is nothing like me ;) Never call me sweetie honey...and do not take liberties with certain personal matters I scatter about the internet..although you are one of these feeble voyeurs who ask/judge that of others that which you cant be arsed to live up to yourself - such entitlement All that aside The answers were datingkinky.com I am only currently recommending this one. "they" have carefully thought everything through and are catering for the full spectrum of humans fetlife.com this one has the numbers but until they pull a leaf, many, out of the one aboves me website I will not - one of us forewarned what was happening on there and how they laughed at me - well never the genuine ones with a modicum of brain wattage okcupid.com a barren waste land on its death throws..i stilllaugh at how much match paid for that site fabswingers.com - yep recommend that one because it has had a verification system in place for the 10 years its been operational and perhaps the busiest/second busiest site in the UK Understand that if you are a man things are bleak & hard on all sites more so this one than any other i have mentioned. Anyone else care to add to the list - oh all right pof - everyone on every swing fet site is also on there PS always support this site - granted it requires 90% of the women userbase removed on account of most of that being actual men in reality. Although over the epochs I am thoroughly disgusted at the lack of the owners input this place is now the worst it has ever been or be 1 in the 1000 people who are on these places to attend a munch or club - look you will be made to feel welcome but they are not hookup joints- quite the opposite hardly worth my time writing in this one for 10-20 unique views

Wayward5oul -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/3/2016 10:15:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire Wayward5oul I mention her you will not, overlooking the fact she is nothing like me ;) Never call me sweetie honey...and do not take liberties with certain personal matters I scatter about the internet..although you are one of these feeble voyeurs who ask/judge that of others that which you cant be arsed to live up to yourself - such entitlement All that aside The answers were datingkinky.com I am only currently recommending this one. "they" have carefully thought everything through and are catering for the full spectrum of humans fetlife.com this one has the numbers but until they pull a leaf, many, out of the one aboves me website I will not - one of us forewarned what was happening on there and how they laughed at me - well never the genuine ones with a modicum of brain wattage okcupid.com a barren waste land on its death throws..i stilllaugh at how much match paid for that site fabswingers.com - yep recommend that one because it has had a verification system in place for the 10 years its been operational and perhaps the busiest/second busiest site in the UK Understand that if you are a man things are bleak & hard on all sites more so this one than any other i have mentioned. Anyone else care to add to the list - oh all right pof - everyone on every swing fet site is also on there PS always support this site - granted it requires 90% of the women userbase removed on account of most of that being actual men in reality. Although over the epochs I am thoroughly disgusted at the lack of the owners input this place is now the worst it has ever been or be 1 in the 1000 people who are on these places to attend a munch or club - look you will be made to feel welcome but they are not hookup joints- quite the opposite hardly worth my time writing in this one for 10-20 unique views Ok, honey, I won't call you sweetie or mention her again.

Lucylastic -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/3/2016 1:12:46 PM)
http://www.datingkinky.com/ go there

ivone1 -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/3/2016 7:15:22 PM)
no its not invite only anymore, lots of forums .... almost any subject you can think of to talk about....

WickedsDesire -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/7/2016 6:38:16 AM)
Thank you doll and no need to quote I its just wasted space wayward5oul bit like you....true story i actually divorced the last bitch who called me honey....but we would need to get married firstly so you may behold its awe shock wonder....now see thats kinda funny and yet true. Fet does have an awful lot of forums...but understand many of their creators did so for themselves and not the good of the community, or us plebs, and they are moderated with/by that ethos in the main. datingkinky.com could do with some of you prolific threaders.

BraceletMe -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/9/2016 7:14:41 PM)
I just wanted to say that I appreciated your comments on all of the different sites. Not that anything you said really surprised me but in a perverse way it was good to read just so I know I'm not the only guy out there feeling these sites are getting worse and worse. I think the old CollarMe was our best bet - well-known with a reasonably large user base that was mostly a personal ad site - but at some point it became more and more infested with scammers and the like and then FL came along as an alternative that many fled to (the problem with that being is FL is more of a local meet-up kind of thing than anything else). I've seen others recommend munches and various real-life gatherings but from my own personal experience (and in NYC, where one would think the odds would be better) in trying to connect with a domme in that way, I can't say that I had any real success. I think this site was already on its way downhill but the death knell was a few years ago when there was some kind of internal conflict (and subsequent name change) and after that, even simple things like having a keyword search that actually works have fallen by the wayside. From the male sub/slave perspective, this site must be 90% "findommes" now. I still find myself here looking at profiles even realizing it's self-defeating but am eventually going to have to force myself to close my profile and get off the site entirely (as it is now, I only unhide my profile on those rare instances I contact someone). I think the best days of online in general were the early days - people were less jaded and less already-matched-up - not only do we not have that anymore but there are more sites and more diffusion when one good concentrated site would be the best (in my opinion, anyway). To tell the truth, I think the chances of meeting someone were even better before the flourishing of the internet, as compared to this exact moment in time...

Alecta -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/9/2016 7:18:18 PM)
It's true. People tried harder, before the rise of anonymous internet meets.

NookieNotes -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/12/2016 9:45:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BraceletMe I think the best days of online in general were the early days - people were less jaded and less already-matched-up - not only do we not have that anymore but there are more sites and more diffusion when one good concentrated site would be the best (in my opinion, anyway). To tell the truth, I think the chances of meeting someone were even better before the flourishing of the internet, as compared to this exact moment in time... I see what you're saying. What happens, though, it pretty much common. Right now, we have one major social site for kinky folk—FetLife. CS, Alt, Bondage, and so on have been battling it out for the dating part of that market for a long time, without any significant updates to the way they do business or the technology they use. Nor, do the owners really seem to care anymore. There are others starting up. Most, it seems use the same premise as the older sites that have been failing us, and are therefore, not garnering enough interest to keep themselves alive. Dating Kinky is looking at matching from both a vanilla-compatibility standpoint and putting in new ways to connect that other sites have not used/considered. It's new. Not a lot of people there yet. But it's growing fast, which is good. The foundation is awesome. Time will tell on the rest.

BraceletMe -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/14/2016 5:37:38 PM)
I think I will check out the new site you are putting together - not sure if I'll rewrite my profile but will at least need to take some new photos first though...

NookieNotes -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/15/2016 4:47:45 PM)
smiles

megaenn -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/16/2016 1:59:24 PM)
If you're able to get out and meet people I would do that rather then using a computer to do it. Though I guess there's always fetlife....

NookieNotes -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/17/2016 5:15:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: megaenn If you're able to get out and meet people I would do that rather then using a computer to do it. Though I guess there's always fetlife.... I find this interesting. It implies that it's either "get out an meet people," or "use a computer to meet people." Many of the people I know online do both. Hell, I've run kinky events, hosted at my home for years. I've owned a kinky venue. I STILL use the computer to connect with kinky people locally and when I travel. To me, the best is whatever combination actually WORKS for the individual.

WickedsDesire -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/17/2016 7:41:14 AM)
Only ~1/1000 (you can argue me down to 1/500 on a splendid day) people on these sites, mainstream dating/friend sites, every attend a munch or club in their lifetime. Note munches and clubs can actually seem daunting. But they are the complete opposite. Newbies simple mail one of the organizers and when you turn up let them know twere you who emailed then up they will sit you with a nice group of people who will not eat you, or enslave you, sell you for cake money. In essence that 1/1000 will meet more people in that one visit than they will do on a site x rest f their life, well unless you are women Now some waffle or tall tales that also happen to be true: Scotland typically only ever had two munches Edinburgh & Glasgow one.....they may sporadically 1-2 times a year have others/other locations…ateendace for 5 million pop is always low to non existent. I live ~ equi distance from these two cities and I couldn’t be bothered travelling save the once. Clubs different story. I was dragged to my first by a couple…..in essence they said we are coming to pick you in 30 minutes – they were wonderful couple…..after that I tended to car share – not unusual. Sites…hmm nookie *smiles nevertheless Datingkinky.com Fetlife.com – yes we all know they foot me off that one for many a protest but it has numbers…. CM – Your chances are 0% if you are a man Alt.com – don’t pay for it ffs Then you can try fabswingers.com Pof – busiest of all sites – My profile is actually the same on that site as it is on KD or CM & Fabswingers.com – 97% are photo verified as whom they claim OKC waste of time and in its final death throws if you are a man. Anyone who actually knows me knows I am on three sites Dating Kinky- Swingers And I usually carry two spares if I can be bothered…Do not spread yourself to thin Sunset now, 341pm of the afternoon clock, so must be wine time :) The hour of the Dark. Wanders of to the tar and feather someone forums :)

DocStrange -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/18/2016 3:40:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NookieNotes quote: ORIGINAL: megaenn If you're able to get out and meet people I would do that rather then using a computer to do it. Though I guess there's always fetlife.... I find this interesting. It implies that it's either "get out an meet people," or "use a computer to meet people." Many of the people I know online do both. Hell, I've run kinky events, hosted at my home for years. I've owned a kinky venue. I STILL use the computer to connect with kinky people locally and when I travel. To me, the best is whatever combination actually WORKS for the individual. Great advice

AmorousKittyFL -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/18/2016 7:55:19 PM)
Thank you. Most individuals on Collarspace and fetlife hold little appeal for what I seek in a long-term dynamic. Perhaps this site will be better.

DomStrictMale -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/26/2016 10:24:11 PM)
I've found that in many cases the same people frequent nearly all the same social media fetish type sites. So, its just a matter of vetting anywhere you go. quote: ORIGINAL: AmorousKittyFL Thank you. Most individuals on Collarspace and fetlife hold little appeal for what I seek in a long-term dynamic. Perhaps this site will be better.

DomStrictMale -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (12/26/2016 10:26:01 PM)
I've found that many of the same people frequent the same types of fetish social media sites. So, its really just a matter of vetting. quote: ORIGINAL: AmorousKittyFL Thank you. Most individuals on Collarspace and fetlife hold little appeal for what I seek in a long-term dynamic. Perhaps this site will be better.

veronicaboundcd -> RE: Good alternatives to CS (1/1/2017 7:04:37 AM)
I like Fetlife ... it has some drawbacks, but most of the 'Real" people I know have moved from here to there. Their search feature isn't as good, but the site is active and almost never down.

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