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For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/7/2016 3:16:28 PM   
slavedogspike


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Status: offline 		I'm a gay sub who has had a couple of accidental encounter with two different Dommes that left me rattled. I'm pretty sure in a good way. Both encounters were oddly similar.

Domme finds sub in hallway, is very aggressive, encounter lasts a few minutes and I am left breathless and the experience is distracting for weeks. No idea why I reacted the way I did.

I am hoping there is a Domme out there who has interacted with a gay male sub. dog has ZERO idea what to do with this energy.......help me.....😀
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RE: For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/7/2016 7:21:49 PM   
MaidMonkey


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Status: offline 		I had a few initial reactions to this, and I am dead tired so excuse me if I missed something.

Two different dommes interacted with you in an aggressive manner which by your description, I assume in a sexual manner. Where do you hang out? Was it consensual? I would NEVER just mess with someone unless it was negotiated before hand. And if I knew their sexuality was veered away from my gender I would be even more reluctant to mess with them. No need to go terrorizing the unassuming gay boys. ;)

Beyond my surprise at people not negotiating with you, I will say this...

Sexuality is fluid. Maybe you're not attracted to women in general, but you are turned on by women in power. Maybe it wasn't gender related at all, but you were attracted to the submissiveness of it, or the "humiliation" etc. Do some searching in yourself and maybe schedule a scene with a trusted femdom friend who will not just assault you in a hallway and explore if these feelings are geared to femdoms or a tops actions no matter the gender. Sexuality is not black and white.

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RE: For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/7/2016 7:23:29 PM   
MaidMonkey


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Status: offline 		Sorry, I meant to add.

I am not opposed to a D/s dynamic with a gay submissive. BDSM goes beyond sex to me and I could find fulfilment with the play and service of someone even if I never had sex with them.

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RE: For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/7/2016 7:49:51 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


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Status: offline 		My honest opinion? You're not quite as gay as you think.

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RE: For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/7/2016 11:39:31 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		I define there being three levels - romantic, sexual, and nonsexual play such as bondage and impact play. Perhaps you're gay for the first two, and bi for the third.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: For experienced Dommes with gay subs - 11/11/2016 12:15:00 AM   
MAINEiacMISTRESS


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ORIGINAL: MaidMonkey

Sorry, I meant to add.

I am not opposed to a D/s dynamic with a gay submissive. BDSM goes beyond sex to me and I could find fulfilment with the play and service of someone even if I never had sex with them.

^This. Personally I enjoy interactions with gay submissives, because they do not complicate our D/s with fantasies of romance or sex.

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