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asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 7:03:24 AM

sedaliadoms

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how do other doms feel about the slaves who demand money for relocation me myself feel they need to prove themselfs by coming to me on their own and then i provide their food shelter ect for the rest of the time they are owned am i the only one that feels sending money is a major red flag

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 7:25:25 AM

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That's exactly how we feel about it.

We have already had more than a dozen this past 2 weeks where we have flatly refused to send any money whatsoever.
Needless to say, surprise surprise, we don't hear from them any more.
Or, like one of them said, that they had been paid for and were on their way.
Really?? I call bullshit and shenanigans.

We aren't adverse to re-imbursements and if they are genuine, those advertising such sub/slaves would be glad to pass them on.
The fact that they go silent just tells me it is nothing more than a scam.
Just the same as those who say they are for free but you have to pay for "shipping" via a [dating] site called deliveryman.com.

Your post would have been easier to read if you used some punctuation.

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 8:35:50 AM

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It comes down to this: do you want them to be your slave more than they want you to be their Master?
If you want their servitude more than they want your ownership, then you would put in more effort than them, including money etc.
If they want your ownership more, then they will put in more effort, including to relocate themselves to you.

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 12:22:10 PM

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A person aspiring to be my slave, who wants to come out to meet me will do so on their own dime. If I want to go out to meet them, I will do so on my own dime.

However, once the prospective slave is collared, and my property, I will pay to relocate them, pay for all food/shelter/medical/etc they require, just like I would for any other property I owned (like say a dog I bought from a breeder in another state).

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 12:48:29 PM

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am i the only one that feels sending money is a major red flag

I feel it's more of a red flag that you would consider a relocation of a person that you've never met.

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/9/2016 1:54:02 PM

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quote:

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am i the only one that feels sending money is a major red flag

I feel it's more of a red flag that you would consider a relocation of a person that you've never met.

Seconded.

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/10/2016 7:23:59 PM

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Do you know them? Because if you've seen them every other weekend for three years and want them to move to you, then why not pay for the moving van?

As far as total strangers, why would you want them? They could easily dislike you and find you laughable. You could easily find you have nothing in common.

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RE: asking other doms thoughts - 11/16/2016 12:02:17 AM

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I think there are a ton of intErnest scams and this would be no different. If I found a real connection I would consider going to thier city location, meeting them, making sure it is what we wanted, then allow them to gather thier belongings and travel home with me.

Flat out send you cash, money order, or wire would be out of the question. We are ok financially, but would not take kindly to being scammed out of it.

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