Since when are people in the FETISH community so fucking judgy?
Seriously..there are guys out there that want to get fucked bareback until they get AIDS because it's there kink and you assholes are harassing someone offering kink services?
Get the fuck off it.
Who's being harassed?
The OP plopped her personal ad in the discussion forum, which is frowned upon here. There are two sections that allow personal ads (Intros and Looking for Love) and the rest are topic/discussion forums. It's not rocket science. Well, maybe it is for somebody who can't read the forum guidelines, observe threads that are on the forums to observe the culture of the site, or anything semi-intelligent about what section an original should go.
I know. Weird, huh?
I don't frown upon it. To the OP, just rephrase your post to include the same desires but frame it as asking for advice. These babes will then ignore the fact that you are actually doing a personal ad cause they love to lord it over and give advice! Hell, they're women. Works every time.