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nightly8 -> Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 12:17:02 PM)
Is there anything fundamentally wrong with a situation that I hope to make happen? I want a live-in slave/maid. She would eagerly submit to my darkest desires. Also, she would keep my house in order, do the shopping, do the cooking, sleep and eat and wear just as I order. In truth, sessions of degrading or humiliating, would be rare. (About once or twice a month.) However, Blow jobs, and bang her quick sex would be a daily and hourly activity. All three holes would be mine to use, as it pleases me. Also, a spanking or other corrective action would be a daily activity. So, with this explanation, am I expecting too much or being unrealistic? Thank you.

OsideGirl -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 1:43:59 PM)
What's in it for her?

stef -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 2:40:49 PM)
An hourly pronging. How could she say no?

OsideGirl -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 4:01:57 PM)
Oh, and quote: The slave must be able to do some light gardening and home repair. If not they must be willing to learn. quote: ORIGINAL: stef An hourly pronging. How could she say no? I'm not quite sure how she'll manage to clean the house, do the gardening, and the home repairs (all while dressed as directed) in between the hourly pronging and daily corrections...but how could a woman possibly resist such an incredible opportunity?

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 5:38:09 PM)
Nope, that's pretty much what I have with my Fellas.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 5:39:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl What's in it for her? Oh that's easy, she gets to do the housework, gets beat semi-regularly, and gets lots of sex. What's not to like about that?

DesFIP -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 6:35:04 PM)
Having to do it with the op. Seriously, there's barely a dude on this site and everywhere else who doesn't dream of this. Why should she pick you over all those other guys?

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/1/2016 6:56:19 PM)
That's a good point.

DarkSteven -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/2/2016 12:49:22 AM)
I assume she needs to work fulltime as well. Nightly8, you've just described what you want. Let me ask you a few questions. Will she be working outside the home? If not, how does she get healthcare? Whst happens if you die unexpectedly and her only skills are as a housekeeper? What if she has children? What if she wants children? Whst happens if you two are incompatible? I get concerned because you describe her like an appliance, not a person.

OsideGirl -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/2/2016 9:17:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven I get concerned because you describe her like an appliance, not a person. Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner. It's not that wanting a submissive that stays home and cares for the house is wrong. What's wrong is the attitude presented. It's all about what he gets with nothing offered to the sub.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/2/2016 11:11:01 AM)
quote: It's all about what he gets with nothing offered to the sub. Well, as I pointed out, that isn't really true. He has specified quite clearly what he is offering the sub, and to some what he is offering is rather appealing.

DesFIP -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/2/2016 12:44:26 PM)
Except I doubt he can fulfill his promises. He can get a hard on every hour on the hour? Come on, not even newlyweds can do it that often. So if he's ignoring physical recovery and being totally unrealistic about this, why should anyone believe a word he says? He shows himself to be with zero experience who is typing one handed. Which is not the way to earn trust.

OsideGirl -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/2/2016 2:08:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: It's all about what he gets with nothing offered to the sub. Well, as I pointed out, that isn't really true. He has specified quite clearly what he is offering the sub, and to some what he is offering is rather appealing. I think some would think it appealing within the scope of a relationship, but this post and his profile come across as less than that. I also think some would think the lack of relationship is appealing because it has fantasy appeal that most would grow tired of after a short time. Like I said, it's not wrong to want someone to be a stay at home, but if it's not symbiotic and realistic, chances are the relationship will crash and burn.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 8:12:21 AM)
quote: Except I doubt he can fulfill his promises. I don't disagree (well unless he has toys and or friends/clients, however that was not the issue I was responding to. :)

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 8:13:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick quote: It's all about what he gets with nothing offered to the sub. Well, as I pointed out, that isn't really true. He has specified quite clearly what he is offering the sub, and to some what he is offering is rather appealing. I think some would think it appealing within the scope of a relationship, but this post and his profile come across as less than that. I also think some would think the lack of relationship is appealing because it has fantasy appeal that most would grow tired of after a short time. Like I said, it's not wrong to want someone to be a stay at home, but if it's not symbiotic and realistic, chances are the relationship will crash and burn. And yet, he still did specify what he offered the sub.

Alecta -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 10:01:54 AM)
There's only 2 points here that are unrealistic, though they are pretty big points... 1. Time. There isn't enough time in a day to do all that cleaning, repairing, gardening, shopping, cooking, and banging, especially with the hourly interruption. And have you tried being woken up every hour of the night while you're trying to sleep? That's pretty unrealistic. Priorities! (plus all the ladies I know who already do their own home repairs and non-recreational gardening also all have dominant personalities, so that may also be a little unrealistic) 2. Daily spanking and corrective action. A punishment activity must strictly stay as a punishment in order to be effective as a corrective tool. If she gets broccoli when she's been bad and broccoli when she's been good, there's no reason for her to be good since she can't avoid the broccoli anyway. The promise of daily is also unrealistic. Do you expect her to make mistakes that require correction every day? That's setting your whole dynamic up to fail. The point of corrective action is to move towards perfect service. Otherwise, there's nothing wrong with what is being offered.

kiwisub22 -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 11:02:42 AM)
]Just as a matter of interest - is the slave expected or do you want the slave to enjoy the sex/spankings. because if you don't , then while she is going the dishes, watering the yard and so on, you could just have at her while she works, so there is no interruption in the work flow. It would be way more time efficient. Of course, she might end up sick and tired of sex being another task that she is expected to multitask with, and go look for some respect/foreplay/fun.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 12:36:47 PM)
quote: plus all the ladies I know who already do their own home repairs and non-recreational gardening also all have dominant personalities, so that may also be a little unrealistic Your very limited experience does not define what is realistic.

Alecta -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 1:06:04 PM)
I said "may". I recognise your blindspot when it comes to my use of qualifiers and small-d.

Alecta -> RE: Domestic live-in maid/slave (12/3/2016 1:09:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kiwisub22 Of course, she might end up sick and tired of sex being another task that she is expected to multitask with, and go look for some respect/foreplay/fun. I thought it went without saying that his interest did not extend to those who would feel that way.

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