You guys are so critical.You must have really boring sex lives.When I want something I simply take it.Thats the way to do things.
Only to a wannabe asshat who knows nothing and lives in a fantasy.
We are critical because many of us live this life 24/7/365.
We've worked out what works, what doesn't and what is pie in the sky.
To attract anyone, be it 'nilla or kink, you have to present yourself in a favourable light.
You have to show you have intelligence and the smarts for someone to choose you over the other gazillion others out there fishing in a very very small pool.
You have failed on all counts.
You don't project anything at all for someone to want you.
That's what we are telling you.
But if you want to succeed, you have to have bait - not an empty hook.
“If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear.”
George Orwell, 1903-1950