kiwisub22
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My dominant and I met for a "meet and greet" at Barnes and Noble. We did talk about BDSM, but we also talked about books, education, philosophy, music, travel, pets - basically, if either of us were interested in a topic , it came up. We probably talked for about two hours, which gave me a really good idea if I could not only submit to him, but enjoy being around him. He told me his expectations for his submissive - not as in -this is what you WILL do, but this is what you would be expected to do, if we decide this is what we want. He did let me know what he would want for our first meet, in a D/s context, and left it to me to process. He didn't insist on a decision right that moment. Basically, he acted like a gentleman. Anyone who insists on a submissive making a decision on anything right away is more of a dick than a dominant.
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