WindAndSky
Posts: 26
Joined: 6/26/2016 Status: offline
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I wouldn't discount new people. There's something just lovely about growing into it and learning together. Plus, they may come with fewer preconceived notions, and be more interested in exploring things with you. You don't say whether you're looking for a relationship, or for play. But either way, the advice is about the same. Treat the objects of your interest as people first, dommes and subs second. Get to know them, as you would a new friend. Let some trust and affection build. Hit some events in real life. Volunteer in some capacity, show that you're invested in being there and being helpful. And not just play parties, go to the munches too and talk to people, so they can see that you're not just looking to get your rocks off, you're hoping to learn by talking as well as doing, and make real connections that go beyond play.
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