After you check out "The Five Love Languages," you want another book called, "He's Not That Into You". "Cause, if it were me, this would be a primary example of, 'yep, I'm getting my rocks off, but I'm not terribly invested in yout
If I'm not sharing our mutual interests, making you a part of them, etc, etc, it's not boding well for you. I mean, if I would happen to be into rock climbing and you're not, that's one thing. However, if I'm into rock climbing and you are, too, yet I never *involve* you when I engage in that hobby, (though I will with people who matter to me) you're just not that high on the importance scale.
Let's do the LP luminous test...
Can you name five of his co-workers? Can he? If not, he doesn't care about your work life.
How much time does he spend, per week, involved in co-mingled hobbies that don't include you? Does he engage in those hobbies with other people?
Can he name your five favorite movies, bands, or authors?
Does he know five things you have in your purse, right now?
How many of his friends know childhood memories about him that you don't?
If you do an honest assessment about these kinds of things, (use your own examples, as appropriate) you'll get a better grip on whether he cares about you as a person or just a piece of ass.
The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT
Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD
Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.
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