HoneyBears -> RE: Could I possibly be a switch? (1/20/2017 4:20:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: janigrey Should I label myself a switch? I've decided to tag myself with "evolving" right now. Part of me thinks - perhaps I just need firmer handling? Throughout life, we should always continue to evolve. [:)] The only thing that does not change, is that All Things Are Subject to Change. (Paraphrasing somebody and cannot recall who.) You can be a submissive-leaning switch, or "bottom" heavy in terms of BDSM activities. You could be a dominant-leaning switch, or "Top" heavy. Rarely are switches exactly a 50/50 split. It helps others if you can assess a ballpark split ratio (75/25, 60/40, 50/50, 40/60, 25/75), but that would be for you to decide and to adjust this shifting ratio as you see fit. For example, you may find a master with whom you do not desire to switch. The good thing about having flexibility, is that you could find yourself a dom-leaning switch or a masochistic dominant; whereas the majority of submissive women would be unhappy if their master acted less than *domly* in their eyes. Further, there is nothing wrong with indulging in experimentation safely, with a trusted, fluid-bonded partner. It can be hard on male switches, more so on line than at IRT events; however, female switches typically do not run into nearly as much intolerance or disdain with the "You're just confused" stereotype. Best of Luck, Lisa & Cub
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