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breast suspension - 2/1/2017 8:04:38 PM

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My partner wants me to be suspended by my breasts. I have told him I will not do that, but the more I think about it the more I wonder why I said that.
Has anyone actually done this? What was it like? Was it very painful? Can you advise on tying methods? Max time limit? Anything else?
I know I will get a string of "your nuts you'll be horribly injured and it'll all be your fault" which is fine I appreciate those who are worried about my welfare. But I really want to know what its like.

RE: breast suspension - 2/1/2017 9:18:22 PM

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RE: breast suspension - 2/1/2017 9:57:48 PM

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Google is not being very friendly to me. Hence my asking.

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RE: breast suspension - 2/1/2017 11:01:06 PM

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I read a story about a women who used to do suspensions as a model. One day something went wrong.. done with a professional and it still went wrong. Now only in her mid 30s she can't use her rught hand anymore. She has permanent damage that can't be fixed.

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RE: breast suspension - 2/2/2017 9:52:59 AM

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quote:

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My partner wants me to be suspended by my breasts. I have told him I will not do that, but the more I think about it the more I wonder why I said that.
Has anyone actually done this? What was it like? Was it very painful? Can you advise on tying methods? Max time limit? Anything else?
I know I will get a string of "your nuts you'll be horribly injured and it'll all be your fault" which is fine I appreciate those who are worried about my welfare. But I really want to know what its like.

It can cause breast necrosis, cysts and make a mastectomy necessary.

Your breasts are not designed to hold weight, never mind the weight of your body, so there is no guaranteed safe way to do this. Every time you do it will be a gamble.

As for this:

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Can you advise on tying methods? Max time limit?

Why doesn't he know the answers to these questions?

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RE: breast suspension - 2/2/2017 2:23:38 PM

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Ya know, your breasts sag as you get older because of the cumulative effects of gravity. Just imagine what would happen if you regularly put the weight of an average human being on them.
Of course you have to bear in mind that there really isn't much in the way of dense connective tissue in your boobs. I had a surgeon describe them as large sweat glands - which may be accurate, but not attractive.
I would think breast suspension is one of those things you read about in erotic novels, which wouldn't work out well in real life.

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RE: breast suspension - 2/8/2017 11:02:24 AM

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Everything you see on the internet isn't safe. You may watch a video done by a professional and think wow that's something but are you witness to the damage that shows up later, no. All the bruising, suspension, torture shown on those videos has consequences and none are good. OG is right, bad things can and will manifest themselves later if not sooner. Treat your girls with a modicum of respect and hopefully they won't try to kill you in the future.
If he wants to suspend you I'd recommend a karada with your upper body in partial suspension and a snug but not tight breast bind that supports only their weight. Boobs are beautiful, wonderful things, protect them, especially while abusing them. Definition of abuse here being "used in a manner not intended by the creator." As far as a "time limit" goes the general rule is when they feel cool and are beginning to discolor it's time to unleash the hounds.
One last thought, if neither of you are experienced at this and you hear "I think it'll be OK" remember, that's akin to hearing the hillbilly say "Hey y'all somebody hold my beer and watch this!" Rarely does it turn out well.

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RE: breast suspension - 2/8/2017 1:06:24 PM

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What you see in porn is fake. They have a chair or a helper holding her up. They flash for one second to her swinging free and then the assistant holds her weight again. They have hidden lines to a beam holding her weight. This cannot be done for real without causing damage.

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RE: breast suspension - 2/8/2017 3:55:37 PM

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RE: breast suspension - 2/10/2017 5:22:50 PM

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Google is not being very friendly to me. Hence my asking.

Maybe you asked the wrong question?

https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=breast+suspension+risks&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b&gfe_rd=cr&ei=AmeeWPLqA9H38AfkwYzIBA#q=BDSM+breast+suspension+risks

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RE: breast suspension - 2/27/2017 4:58:31 PM

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Apparently your partner doesn't comprehend or understand that suspending you by your breasts can cause irreparable physical damage and that ALL damage, done by him, to you, will be his responsibility.
It is not like doing the hokie-pokie and he holds your hand until the discomfort passes. It could easily result in a trip to the ER, where explaining that your partner decided to hang you up by your tits and you said hey, why not, will most likely result in a conversation with the police.
The law views him causing irreparable physical damage to you, as assault . . And you'll say, but I gave him permission . . Problem is, consent is not a legally acceptable defense to assault.
So ask yourself, do you really want to know what it's like to wake up physically disfigured and your partner in jail . . Better yet . . Ask him if it's what he has in mind for a fun weekend.

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RE: breast suspension - 3/28/2017 8:09:03 AM

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quote:

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My partner wants me to be suspended by my breasts. I have told him I will not do that, but the more I think about it the more I wonder why I said that.
Has anyone actually done this? What was it like? Was it very painful? Can you advise on tying methods? Max time limit? Anything else?
I know I will get a string of "your nuts you'll be horribly injured and it'll all be your fault" which is fine I appreciate those who are worried about my welfare. But I really want to know what its like.

yes its painfull

reccomend a tie that takes at least some weight off the breasts for your first time

can cause damage if it goes on to long, there is not a set time but look at the colour of the breasts. (generaly no more than a few min)

make sure your partner reads up and plans things out and make sure you understand the risks. though not as omg the world will explode as some of these above posts claim. have fun!

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RE: breast suspension - 3/30/2017 2:33:27 AM

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Simply tying breasts with rope is rather dangerous and causes its own problems if not done safely. I can't imagine the risks of suspension.

But everyone here said it better than I ever could

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RE: breast suspension - 3/30/2017 4:05:14 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: dumbblonde20

My partner wants me to be suspended by my breasts. I have told him I will not do that, but the more I think about it the more I wonder why I said that.
Has anyone actually done this? What was it like? Was it very painful? Can you advise on tying methods? Max time limit? Anything else?
I know I will get a string of "your nuts you'll be horribly injured and it'll all be your fault" which is fine I appreciate those who are worried about my welfare. But I really want to know what its like.

Google Sun Dance Lakota and feel free to write me on the other side. I have had the supreme honor of this once in a lifetime experience.

Research..weigh the risk vs the reward..which in my case was amazing and worth it. You might want to check out the body mods rags, google Fakir Musofar or Cleo DuBois with the keywords. There may be some older stuff on the web from back in the day. Fakir is retired but he is and has been an active voice for several decades on piercing, hooking and seeking other energies through physical endurance, chakra connection through piercing practices and the like.

Risk vs reward is up to YOU to determine. You could walk out the front door tomorrow and get hit by a bus..or a Rental car and long term effects wont matter. Of course long term matters but there are some moments worth living in.

Yeah..sometimes the sky falls..mostly it doesnt ..on occasion you get to fly. Why are you here unless you are looking to travel on a journey?

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RE: breast suspension - 3/30/2017 7:37:16 AM

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Because some of us want to know we will get home safely from our trip.

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RE: breast suspension - 3/30/2017 9:13:26 AM

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Because some of us want to know we will get home safely from our trip.

I hope you always come home safe, Des but for me the future is a mutable thing, especially now and I don't "know" if I will come home safe from any given journey. I have found that I have to be brave in the face of my fears or I simply won't move or journey at all which sounds deadly dull.

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RE: breast suspension - 4/13/2017 9:10:04 AM

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As a fan of breast binding, I'd say if you want to experience something new - go for it.
BUT: go into it with your eyes wide open. Use your head first.
Breast binding compresses the tissues of the breasts and tightens the skin and stretches the nipple in all directions.
It also pulls the skin and connective tissues through the armpit and around to the spine - especially during suspension.
This also includes a great portion of the lymph nodes under the arm. Remember, you're pulling on all the tissues underneath also- not just skin.
It's all connected together as a package. Mechanically speaking, pressure is equal to the load applied over the area affected.
Place one pound of ground meat on the back of your hand. No problem. Balance that same pound of ground meat on the head of a pin
and put the point of the pin on the back of your hand. It doesn't end well. So before you attempt suspension by your breasts,
consider the small amount of skin and tissues encircled by the constricting ropes versus your body weight. Also, the tighter the breasts are bound and
constricted, the more pressure is exerted over a smaller area. Women of girth,(and absolutely no offence is intended here),
would typically NOT be good candidates for suspension solely by their breasts.
Physically, body conditioning is also a factor. If you're not in peak condition- and we all know who we are, affects how much or how little permanent
damage might be done to your body. You're affecting not only the breasts and tissues inside the breasts, but the tissues outside the bindings.
Walk before you run. Try using a Shibari harness at first. One that "includes" the bindings of the breasts, and spreads the weight of your body over
the ropes around the back and other parts like the crotch and pelvis. By varying the suspension ropes you can apply as much or as little pressure as
you want (or can stand), wherever you or your partner wish.

Just as an aside on binding, suspended or not, the proper way to bind a breast is NOT to just wrap rope around and around the breasts going tighter
and tighter with each turn strangling the breast. Done properly, each turn of rope should lie next to, and in parallel, to the previous turn -
both constricting AND lengthening the breast to apply pressure outwards towards the nipple. If you want it tighter, simply unwrap the first turnings
and re-wind them to suit your preference. To ease off the pressure, just undo a turn or two from the front. However you do this, do bear in mind the duration.
You should not be bound for more than ten minutes as a starting point, and the tighter the binding, the shorter the duration should be.

Otherwise, ENJOY!

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RE: breast suspension - 5/11/2017 7:56:46 PM

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Insex did breast hanging often on their site. Also as an aside, this method of punishment is/was used in Iraq/Iran as a method of correction for women.

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RE: breast suspension - 8/16/2017 11:07:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CaptR

Everything you see on the internet isn't safe. You may watch a video done by a professional and think wow that's something but are you witness to the damage that shows up later, no. All the bruising, suspension, torture shown on those videos has consequences and none are good. OG is right, bad things can and will manifest themselves later if not sooner. Treat your girls with a modicum of respect and hopefully they won't try to kill you in the future.
If he wants to suspend you I'd recommend a karada with your upper body in partial suspension and a snug but not tight breast bind that supports only their weight. Boobs are beautiful, wonderful things, protect them, especially while abusing them. Definition of abuse here being "used in a manner not intended by the creator." As far as a "time limit" goes the general rule is when they feel cool and are beginning to discolor it's time to unleash the hounds.
One last thought, if neither of you are experienced at this and you hear "I think it'll be OK" remember, that's akin to hearing the hillbilly say "Hey y'all somebody hold my beer and watch this!" Rarely does it turn out well.

Best answer!

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RE: breast suspension - 8/16/2017 2:03:31 PM

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in reply to OP,dumblonde20,

I would advise no, but in any event, be careful once they are damaged it is done.

If you want more of an idea of what this looks like, try going to xhamster dot com, they have a wide variety of vidieos for free to look at and you can see if it looks like it is for you.

let us know what you think if you look at them.

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