TheBuilder76
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Joined: 2/3/2017
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Hello I thought I would introduce myself, and give a quick bio. I am new to this site not new to the lifestyle. I was introduced into this life in my teens by a ex who was much more dominant then I was at the time. The more I learned, and explored I quickly took over the dominant role. I stayed active till my mid 20s, and had 2 subs. My biggest passion is making my own restraints, and using them on others. I am a metal worker so there is almost nothing I can not make out of metal, and wood. The smell of melting metal, the heat, and sparks on my skin. It is quite exhilarating, but does not compare to locking someone into a device. The moment when cold hard steel touches soft warm skin brings a smile to my face. Metal work is much like training a sub. It may be hard and rough around the edges to start, but I can mold it into whatever I want. Sadly after my last sub and I parted ways I never found another. I was not active in the local community, and had no idea where to find another. My 2 were in a group a friends that I use to have. So I have been living a very vanilla life for the past 16 years. Married with kids all the normal stuff. Wife is not into anything, so I left that part of me die, or so I thought. I still visit many sites because this is part of me, but not active. I thought just seeing it online was enough to keep me satisfied. This leads me to why after all this time I decided to become active again. The other night I was at work, and just finished cutting pieces out of sheet metal I needed to patch parts for a car. I stared at the metal with the parts I cut out and thought this looks like one half of a set of stocks. I suddenly realized how much I missed making my own restraints. The feeling of restraining someone in them for the first time. That's what I was missing. I started looking around at things, and wondered what I could make out of that. I felt alive again. Even now that's all I can think of. I am going to start making devices again hence why I chose TheBuilder76 as my name. For now this is my first step to getting back into this life. As for the person I am looking for, I am not sure yet. Times change people change. I consider myself as dom. Would I serve a mistress? Possibly. I would love to have a sub to use my restraints with. Without someone they are just works of art. Would I be a switch? I know that's a sore subject with most. I would never switch with the same person. As of right now it is unclear who I am looking for. This spark has just become active in me again, and I have some thinking to do. All I know is this is something I can not push back deep inside and cover up with the ordinary again. I decided to make a profile on here, and make this introduction. I am not ready to just find the local scene, and jump right in. I need to get up to date with things, and figure out what I want since I been inactive for so long. Look forward to talking with people on here, and becoming active again.
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