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Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking for ... - 2/14/2017 5:54:12 AM   
Maxxp


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We are a family consisting of 3 girls, (1 switch, and 2 subs) and 1 guy (a Master with experience teaching). Two people in the house are medical marijuana users, and we are ok with non smokers, medical, or just for fun. Our days consist of Netflix, video games, baking and cooking big meals together, some kinky stuff when the mood is right. We are a poly family, but we all have our own bedrooms and kinky fun is most always kept private between the two people involved. Our family is considered a 'closed poly family', meaning we all are free to have whatever level of intimacy we're comfortable with together, but any time we include anyone else (which is rare) we only do, if we all agree to.
We enjoy video games, do some cosplay and go to conventions. We're liberally minded politically, and have a dog and 3 cats we adore.

We started off looking for a house slave to join and serve us, but we may be open to a lot of other things, we're most concerned with finding someone that enjoys being part of our family as much as we enjoy having you.

This is a unique situation and we're unique people. Consent is #1 in our household, happiness is #2.
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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/14/2017 11:40:15 AM   
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And your question is...?

You see, this is a discussion forum, not a forum for your personal ad. Personal ads belong in Looking For Naughty Love.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/14/2017 11:56:36 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

And your question is...?

You see, this is a discussion forum, not a forum for your personal ad. Personal ads belong in Looking For Naughty Love.

^^^^ This

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/14/2017 1:05:04 PM   
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I guess I was confused with all of the OTHER members posting nearly exactly the same thing. In fact, one other posted as a couple looking for a 3rd,theb was berated for not giving ENOUGH information.

Guess no matter what you'll get more people being negative than anything else around here.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/14/2017 1:09:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Maxxp

I guess I was confused with all of the OTHER members posting nearly exactly the same thing.


So, you were just following the herd of other people not smart enough to read the forum guidelines.




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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/15/2017 9:22:33 AM   
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Whoa....you guys are tough. As a person that has an interest in starting his own poly family, I actually enjoyed reading the post. I didn't really see it as an ad but rather a posts that was open to discussion. I just wanted to say thanks for sharing Maxxp.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/15/2017 3:25:48 PM   
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Oside thinks she is Mother Superior here.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/19/2017 10:19:04 AM   
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Oside is better at forum regs than most people. Some people would benefit from that.


OP, you guys basically sound like a bunch of stoners who are hoping to find some schlep who is willing to come and clean up after you once you've had your binge on weed and video games. I mean, those kind of folks are out there, who groove on service of that kind, but your chances of finding one on the discussion forums probably isn't the best path to success.

There are four of you and not ONE could find a service submissive in FIVE YEARS? That's double tough. Have any of you stopped getting high long enough to take a look around your kink and/or poly community?


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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/20/2017 3:47:00 PM   
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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/21/2017 8:59:51 PM   
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Five WHOLE years?

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 2/22/2017 7:26:35 PM   
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Five WHOLE years?


Yes and without requiring Stockholm Syndrome.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 10:07:43 AM   
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Not even to the 7 year itch stage

What do you have to offer the person coming in?

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 10:19:09 AM   
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Personally i think it might be easier for someone new to enter a newer relationship because there is most likely more flexibility for everyone to adjust to the needs of a new person. Also, there is less of a chance for one of the existing subs to become envious of what the new sub might have 'special' between herself and the dominant because they are still in a new relationship with him themselves.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 11:03:51 AM   
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From my own experience, there is no this way is easier than that. What makes it easier or harder is the amount of self awareness all the people involved have and how committed each person involved is to the relationship vision.

Next month the three of us will be together for 12 years (10 of it live in sharing the same bedroom). He and Alandra have been together 30 years this summer. Then we have someone we have interected off.and on with for 10 years recently join our family. In those years there have been a few who have come and gone. For the most part, it didn't work because they were not committed to the family vision or did not see themselves fitting into that vision.


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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 11:36:28 AM   
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I dont believe Op - which is fair comment. Poly relationships/swinging almost never work to an almost absolute level of 0 times, you have to be someone like I, or a sociopath, or broken being for them to do so. Enter at your peril.

Still that aside I would settle for the one and/or flock of cake baking neophytes from outerspace

But by all means several nymphomaniacs feel free to mail me at [email protected]

Now you I believe mists of time strange I have never noticed you here before.

edited to add i have now read OPs profile - plausible catspaw


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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 12:28:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Now you I believe mists of time strange I have never noticed you here before.



Been around since 2005 with the same nick.


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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 12:34:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

From my own experience, there is no this way is easier than that. What makes it easier or harder is the amount of self awareness all the people involved have and how committed each person involved is to the relationship vision.

Next month the three of us will be together for 12 years (10 of it live in sharing the same bedroom). He and Alandra have been together 30 years this summer. Then we have someone we have interected off.and on with for 10 years recently join our family. In those years there have been a few who have come and gone. For the most part, it didn't work because they were not committed to the family vision or did not see themselves fitting into that vision.



Yes and there were probably reasons why they didn't see themselves fitting in named kyra and Alandra.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 12:42:04 PM   
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You are funny lol

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 12:44:05 PM   
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You are funny lol


It might be funny for you but probably not so much for the 3rd girl trying to fit in.

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RE: Successful poly household. 5 years stable, looking ... - 3/18/2017 12:45:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: kyraofMists

You are funny lol


It might be funny for you but probably not so much for the 3rd girl trying to fit in.


You sure make a lot of assumptions about people you have never met and you remind me why I stopped posting here. Can't fix stupid.


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