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FriendlyMuppet -> RE: Dear Male "Subs" (4/28/2017 11:27:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic
I'm quitting Collarspace because you all are just a bunch of horny guys jerking your dicks off at me, calling me "Mistress" when you don't even know me, and expecting me to be some kind of fetish delivery system. You claim to be submissive to dominant women but yet you have no respect for us and show no interest in us as human beings. You sit there and send copy pasta, or approach us as though we are free hookers or free pro dommes. We are people and we are women. We have personalities and interests outside of kink. We like to have normal conversations and go out on dates and all those things you do when you're getting to know someone. You men who claim to be "submissive" don't even have the slightest bit of respect for women, much less would you know how to be the submissive in a female led relationship. I even have my NAME in my username, but nobody uses it. You guys have no personalities, you're boring, and you're all the same.
One thing I learned a long time ago (on this site specifically) is that a lot of women here are more successful if they pursue a submissive they have interacted with rather than put out the shingle and see what shows up at their door. There are way too many guys on these sorts of sites who are basically trying to shortcut their way to a cheap orgasm and really have zero desire to actually involve themselves in a sincere relationship. Therefore, you have to go through a lot of work and weeds getting through that demographic. That's the problem sincere women have here; that problem is quite present pretty much anywhere there's a "dating" element involved and the process allows any amount of anonymity. Sincere men have a similar problem as well, in that we not only have to traverse beyond the fake dominants and financial dominants (who may actually be other guys trying to make a quick buck, or actual women trying to make a quick buck without any actual relationship involvement), but we also have to convince any sincere woman on the site that we're actually sincere, a worthy supplicant and worth her time and energy before being cast aside as the multitude of noise that buzzes around any woman who appears on the site. I'm shocked and amazed that ANY two people on this site ever connect. But I have in the past, so it can happen.
I'm one of those who used to actively search for a woman who might intrigue me rather than just an android woman with a whip attachment (which seems to be the approach way too many submissive types take), but due to where I live (Southern Texas), I've joined the ranks of sincere submissives who don't really look for anyone any more because real life, odds of finding the right person and just the way the world works has made it easier to just stop looking and fondly remember a time when things were a lot more transparent for those searching for each other.
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