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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 12:32:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

Maybe he wants to fuck her too.

My gut says that's the case.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 2:25:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

I still like you. When asking questions of a woman perhaps a man knows it is best to deeply taste her wet, soft, slightly sweet and slightly salty response in person. What say you? Do you have an answer for me?

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 2:26:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

Maybe he wants to fuck her too.

Rolls my eyes at you.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 2:46:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

I still like you. When asking questions of a woman perhaps a man knows it is best to deeply taste her wet, soft, slightly sweet and slightly salty response in person. What say you? Do you have an answer for me?

In that case maybe you should begin your post with horny wanker looking for submissive to suck my dick...it won't get you any further, but it will save time for those who thought you actually had questions and wanted to start a discussion. But use the right forum, nothing appealing about a top who can't follow simple instructions.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 2:57:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

Maybe he wants to fuck her too.

Rolls my eyes at you.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 2:59:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

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ORIGINAL: LTE

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Submitting is something that requires trust. (It takes being able to trust your partner to give up control) A man that would break his word and lie to the most important person in his life has already proven that he's not trustworthy.

I had a married girl taste my ropes and she hid her marriage from me. That's all she hid from me. She was great. When I found out she was married I dropped her like a rock. Then I saw her and her husband at the local dungeon. I kicked myself. The OP situation is similar in may ways to that girl so the point I finally got around to making is don't judge a kinkster without knowing the kinkster.

Which would be why I asked if his wife knew and consented.

I like you. You will believe whatever he and I tell you. Good girl.

No, actually I don't.

If all he wants to do is ask questions and learn - there is no reason to meet or for it to be a female submissive.

I still like you. When asking questions of a woman perhaps a man knows it is best to deeply taste her wet, soft, slightly sweet and slightly salty response in person. What say you? Do you have an answer for me?

In that case maybe you should begin your post with horny wanker looking for submissive to suck my dick...it won't get you any further, but it will save time for those who thought you actually had questions and wanted to start a discussion. But use the right forum, nothing appealing about a top who can't follow simple instructions.

i disagree. His approach was much better. And some of us like Men who don't follow all the rules... just so you know.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/21/2017 3:01:40 PM

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By all means then, have at it.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/22/2017 4:56:21 AM

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Might be different for men, as they always love the idea of fucking another man's wife. It's an ego thing.

Maybe. Are you married?

I'm divorced and free to fuck anybody I want.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/22/2017 4:59:42 AM

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I am a 40-year-old successful professional that is married, and NOT looking.

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My guess is that if such a woman existed I would fall head over heals for her. I can't be inside of a woman's body that much, with a woman who controls her mouth, and not develop a deep relationship with her. Right???

Going by that. Definitely Looking. Poor wife.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 12:20:34 PM

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Might be different for men, as they always love the idea of fucking another man's wife. It's an ego thing.

Maybe. Are you married?

I'm divorced and free to fuck anybody I want.

Sorry, I stepped out for a little while. Complicated stuff...

Maybe. When you are married.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 1:40:43 PM

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Op needs to update his profile. "Unhappily married man looking to cheat on his wife, wanting to take only and not do anything to make her happy."

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 2:25:14 PM

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Op needs to update his profile. "Unhappily married man looking to cheat on his wife, wanting to take only and not do anything to make her happy."

How is he cheating if he is giving someone else something his wife doesn't want?

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 2:31:28 PM

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Op needs to update his profile. "Unhappily married man looking to cheat on his wife, wanting to take only and not do anything to make her happy."

How is he cheating if he is giving someone else something his wife doesn't want?

First, the definition of cheating "act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage".

Second, how do you know that he's discussed it with her and she has said she doesn't want it?

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 2:37:37 PM

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How does DesFIP know he wants to 'cheat' on his wife?

Marriage is a legal contract that ties your assets and debts together and gives you some rights to make decisions in the event that someone becomes ill. It also obligates society to pay one spouse money in the event one spouse dies. Other than that, it doesn't mean much. People just have old-fashioned views that they hold which were irrelevant long ago.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 3:12:12 PM

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Op needs to update his profile. "Unhappily married man looking to cheat on his wife, wanting to take only and not do anything to make her happy."

How is he cheating if he is giving someone else something his wife doesn't want?

Maybe he's so lousy in bed that even his wife doesn't want him.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 4:40:14 PM

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The OP did update his profile: "I am an happily married man who is new to all of this, and would love to ask questions of a submissive/slave woman."

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 8:03:03 PM

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Sorry, I stepped out for a little while. Complicated stuff...

Maybe. When you are married.

I didn't have an open marriage. We were exclusive to each other because that's what HE WANTS. And I honoured that agreement. I'm a very sexually open person. I am happy with open marriages or close marriages, whichever works for the other person I want to be with.

It's more about my promises. If I promise and agreed to something, I won't break it. That's it. It's just that simple.

But it will be a damn long time before I am ever promising exclusivity to any man ever again.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/24/2017 8:15:14 PM

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How does DesFIP know he wants to 'cheat' on his wife?

Tamaka, in the post, if you read between the lines, he was also bitching about the dissatisfaction he gets from his wife.

And then he talks about wishing he knew that submissive women exists earlier, he would in his own words, "fall head over heals for her" and "develop a deep relationship with her".

Even if this is not physical cheating and he keeps it as just an online fantasy, BUT it is still emotional cheating. To be looking for a woman to "fall head over heels for", when you are married!

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What I HATE is, the disrespectful words I hear come out of women's mouths towards their husbands. I would love to be with a woman who cleaned the house every day. I would love her to through the day come down to my office and see if she can service me to reduce my stress. After work, I would love a massage and blowjob. After dinner, I would love to strap her down and fuck the shit out of her.

THIS is obviously him complaining about the lackings of his wife. IF he already got a wife who would do all those things for him. Then he wouldn't be looking for this "woman he never thought existed".

The man is clearly looking to cheat with the right woman. And men who have wife's permission to do this, would upfront say it.

I had a fuck buddy who claims to me that he has not slept in the same room with his wife for 8 years or touch her sexually, but they are living together to take care of the kids together. They got 3 kids. And he says his wife is seeing other men, and they aren't in a relationship anymore.

I tried to call his bluff and ask to meet his wife. He invited me to his home to have dinner with his wife and children.

That's when you know he is not really cheating and it's for real. I get to speak to the wife and understand she is indeed seeing other men and they are just more like brothers and sisters than a couple anymore. Just waiting for kids to grow up then officially divorce.

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RE: I am new but would love to find a female sub to ask... - 2/26/2017 2:10:24 PM

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Yeah, OP's moral indignation fades when you realize that he wants to ask questions of women only.

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