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Dom testing - 3/5/2017 7:01:51 AM

Hateful3

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I've always thought a high percentage of the Dominant men on this site were really, desperate frustrated lonely men that just want to get any sex they can...

I proved my own theory right by asking 25 men whom emailed me who claimed initially to be totally Dominant if they would sub for me, 24 out of the 25 responded immediately that they would....

So how many of you Masters are really submissives?

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RE: Dom testing - 3/5/2017 11:41:08 AM

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So, you're surprised that there's HNGs on a website?

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RE: Dom testing - 3/5/2017 12:55:21 PM

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Just proves what I've often told others. Over 90% of those you meet from online are not who or what they say they are.

If you are upset or can't handle those odds then you really should use events and munches to find a partner.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/5/2017 6:15:42 PM

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I can see a response of yes being sarcastic and the op unable to identify that. It's not like they all showed up at her dungeon, ready to be flogged.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/5/2017 7:17:25 PM

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I think the men who said yes to subbing for op were absolutely willing to do that. I think she's right and the vast majority of men here will call themselves anything and say anything for the chance to get laid. I doubt it's a much better situation out in the "community". I have long thought genuinely dominant men are vanishingly rare.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/6/2017 11:04:39 AM

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First of all, switching does not make someone a submissive... in makes them a switch. Does having vanilla sex now and then make a kinkster vanilla?

Secondly, this is the internet, finding out 25 men whom said they would do something/anything to get laid is no surprise. But I feel crediting your email encounters as "men" claiming to be dominant might be wrong. I think many of those 24 "men" in real life would turn out to be 12 year old "boys" perving the net for thrills.

Third, I agree that there are many Dominant posers on the net, you know the saying, "wife's at the mall, kids in school, a 6 pack of beer and a computer . . . poof, another insta-Dom is born." However, I think your 24 out of 25 percentage is a skewed perspective, that's 4%. I think you would be lucky to find as high as 4% of Dom male profiles on the other side to actually be adult male dominants. But on this side, where you have posted the question, it is quite a different environment and odds are probably closer to 50/50 or better.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/8/2017 8:59:28 PM

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If the men messaged the same blank profile that I just found I wouldn't be at all surprised that she got horny nutbag nondoms.

I have no interest in blanks. Except for really scary fear play.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/12/2017 7:34:32 AM

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Funny thing you did, Hateful3. But I know you expected that to happen, didn't you? Nevertheless, it proved what we all knew - people online lie. Giving the place you tried your little experiment, it comes as no surprise that most men are looking for free sex with a woman willing to do anything. That is the dream, right? Sadly, so many people here believe that a slave is everyone's slave, that proclaiming themselves "Dom" gives them the right to demand anything from anyone, that D/s is just a playground for alpha males and insecure females.

So to answer your question, I would never consider myself as submissive. From early age, I had a strong personality and kept my ways intact, loved to see things go in the directions I chose, lead and coordinate people. For some if us, this is not a choice, it is who we are. I believe that having a person who puts his or her mind, soul, and body into your hands is a great responsibility and it requires a lot of care. Many users think a D/s relationship can be built in days or weeks. I have built mine in months, but they have lasted for years. Because fucking a body is fairly easy - fucking the mind behind it is the real challenge.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/20/2017 12:34:55 PM

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Come on. Its a site on the internet with naked pictures an words about kinky sex. Of course its going to attract legions of the socially awkward and sexually desperate. While she still had a profile here, my slave was hot on constantly. One of her standard replies was that the only interaction I allowed her with other men was to fuck them in the ass. She was seldom turned down.

For what its worth, genuine lifestyle men here encounter similar. Maybe 1 in 5 female sub profiles are genuine, and thats being generous.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/20/2017 7:23:56 PM

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And probably married, and looking to cheat as well.

I'm a Total top, and monogamous to boot. I've been told that qualifies me as a unicorn. I'm horny, but only with one at a time. I'd be a goat if I was poly.

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RE: Dom testing - 3/21/2017 4:54:23 AM

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Soundso like alternative facts to me

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RE: Dom testing - 4/19/2017 1:30:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

I think the men who said yes to subbing for op were absolutely willing to do that. I think she's right and the vast majority of men here will call themselves anything and say anything for the chance to get laid. I doubt it's a much better situation out in the "community". I have long thought genuinely dominant men are vanishingly rare.

Which makes me extra special then! I have the rope and I know how to use it beautiful.

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RE: Dom testing - 4/21/2017 5:34:18 PM

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Most men who identify as "Dominant" are desperate frustrated lonely men that just want to get any sex they can...Hell most guys fall into that category.
Welcome to the world babe.

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RE: Dom testing - 4/22/2017 9:04:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

First of all, switching does not make someone a submissive... in makes them a switch. Does having vanilla sex now and then make a kinkster vanilla?

I agree with this. I think there are a lot of people, Dominants, who have the intellectual breadth to be able to enjoy both sides of the power gradient. I would argue that it makes you a better Dom, with a more intimate connection to what your sub is experiencing.

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