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LvnFdom -> How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/11/2017 12:36:48 PM)
I am new to femdom world but there is a question on my mind. If submissive partner is in chastity then how does domina fully satisfy herself without penetration. Of course there is oral for example but surely she still has cravings for penetration. So what exactly dominant partner do to relieve there cravings for penetration. Do cuckolding and femdom go hand and hand, as that might be the only way for her to sexually (penetratition) fully satisfy herself. Do Dominas still crave penetration or their submissives are able to satisfy them.

MsLadySue -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/11/2017 2:05:47 PM)
Where did you get the idea that a submissive has any sexual interaction with a dominant? Not all D/s relationships include sex as part of the dynamic.

LisaSadistic -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/11/2017 2:44:21 PM)
Some dominant women crave penetration. Some don't. Some like chastity. Some don't. Some are monogamous and some are not. Some combine cuckolding with chastity. Some don't. Some might use dildos, or a dildo harness, or a strap on over the chastity device. Some don't. Some actually do have penetrative vaginal with the subs they keep in chastity. Some don't.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/15/2017 7:24:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsLadySue Where did you get the idea that a submissive has any sexual interaction with a dominant? Not all D/s relationships include sex as part of the dynamic. ^THIS. Perfectly stated.

LadyConstanze -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/15/2017 5:01:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MAINEiacMISTRESS quote: ORIGINAL: MsLadySue Where did you get the idea that a submissive has any sexual interaction with a dominant? Not all D/s relationships include sex as part of the dynamic. ^THIS. Perfectly stated. Agreed... May I add that the OP doesn't seem to be very clued up on women and their sexuality?

AtUrCervix -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (3/31/2017 4:42:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LvnFdom I am new to femdom world but there is a question on my mind. If submissive partner is in chastity then how does domina fully satisfy herself without penetration. Of course there is oral for example but surely she still has cravings for penetration. So what exactly dominant partner do to relieve there cravings for penetration. Do cuckolding and femdom go hand and hand, as that might be the only way for her to sexually (penetratition) fully satisfy herself. Do Dominas still crave penetration or their submissives are able to satisfy them. A Domme's purpose is to satisfy the sub. If she has failed to do so...she has failed. (Entirely). This is a Domme that should be relegated to the "Failure Bin".... This is then when you say to the Domme..."you have failed me...and I no longer view you as competent". (You're welcome).

StephanieB51 -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/3/2017 7:31:23 PM)
Lady Constanze, I smiled at your binary representation of decimal 2 regarding what I thought was your thought on the gender binary. I also wanted to comment on Mistress Borgia's absolutely hilarious PSA to men! It is so very true and needs repeating. I was also touched my Mistress Borgia's compassion in taking in Paul, the homeless man, and helping him try to get back on his feet again that I read on Her Google+ page. I don't know if it is still appropriate to refer to her with the honorific of Mistress, but I do so out of respect nonetheless. It seems clear that some submissive men are absolutely clueless regarding the nature of Dominant/submissive relationships with Mistresses, which saddens me as it demeans them in the minds of some Mistresses. This can result in Mistresses thinking that all submissive men are oafs, which I don't believe to be true despite the seemingly overwhelming evidence to the contrary <smile>. Respectfully, StephaineB51

DarkSteven -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/5/2017 11:05:11 PM)
Fella, it sounds like you spent a long weekend watching a bunch of femdom videos and they kinda did a mashup in your head. If a femdom wants something in her relationship, she wants it for her own sake, not because it was in a video. In other words, if a kink doesn't work for her, she won't adopt it.

LadyConstanze -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/6/2017 12:32:56 PM)
Stephanie I wasn't even aware that this was on Google, I guess I have to look up that stuff... End of the day we're all people and you can be a sadist and turned on by inflicting pain in a consensual way, it doesn't mean that you are a nasty person who doesn't give a damn about others. I think this whole thing about Dommes being heartless bitches who look down on everybody else and hate men, that's a purely male driven fantasy. In case I would hate men, I would try to be as little as possible around them, but definitely not spend time whipping or caning them. I don't sleep in leather PJs and I don't walk around barking orders, I have some people I actually consider more friends than submissives and we meet when it's mutually convenient, I do know their hard limits but apart from that, during that time, I'm in charge (and they tend to hurt), when we meet up for a coffee, we're just friends, yes sometimes I do sneak in a bit of a pinch, or make sure that they're uncomfy, but I absolutely have no interest in doing that to anybody who I don't have that connection with or some sort of a relationship. Apart from that, I lead a pretty normal life, work hard, party hard on occasion and I'm involved in social projects, because I think poverty is not a choice and suffering from poverty is usually not consensual. Just like an interesting submissive or slave isn't submissive to everybody (that's a doormat) D types aren't heartless freaks.

longwayhome -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/6/2017 5:02:21 PM)
I know it's a ridiculously simple answer but you cannot assume that anyone needs penetration, male or female. Leaving aside D/s without any sexual element, sexual satisfaction doesn't require a specific act. As a male sub, even in vanilla situations, I can be satisfied without penetration so it's no stretch that so can a woman, Domme or not. There are all sorts of things which interest people and get them off sexually or psychologically so, if someone is plainly enjoying something, I'm good with that, without questioning it too much. Indeed I love someone enjoying something so much that it makes me do (and often enjoy in a twisted way) things I would not do otherwise or normally turn me on. It's just part of being a sub. I don't need to question it too much, as long as the enjoyment is there. If a Domme is patently is getting something from what she is doing that's should be enough. The only situation in which I would question a Domme's satisfaction is if I had insisted on something and was topping from the bottom, but that's not how I roll so it doesn't really come up. D/s with no sexual element is something that I can respect intellectually if it is someone's choice, but being in a D/s situation gives me that very familiar tingle that I know is sexual, so I would be lying if I said that I could do D/s without anything sexual as part of the dynamic, even if there was no explicitly sexual touching. Penetration is only one way of getting satisfaction and not necessarily a reliable one.

ortizholmez -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/9/2017 2:39:17 PM)
Hello! I'm Ortiz by name, nice to meet you here. What's your name?

SnowRanger -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/9/2017 7:18:34 PM)
I was new once too.

focalss -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/15/2017 2:54:05 PM)
Another clueless question. If they are you are looking for penetration then chastity won't work for any lengthy amount of time. I am one of those who never understood why anyone would do it if they are looking for a sexual relationship. Yes it is true that some people are not looking for a sexual relationship and it can work for them. If you view BDSM as being tied to sex i.e. penetration, which I do, then it doesn't work.

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/20/2017 5:06:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Fella, it sounds like you spent a long weekend watching a bunch of femdom videos and they kinda did a mashup in your head. If a femdom wants something in her relationship, she wants it for her own sake, not because it was in a video. In other words, if a kink doesn't work for her, she won't adopt it. This right here [sm=agree.gif] And here is why ... quote: ORIGINAL: LisaSadistic Some dominant women crave penetration. Some don't. Some like chastity. Some don't. Some are monogamous and some are not. Some combine cuckolding with chastity. Some don't. Some might use dildos, or a dildo harness, or a strap on over the chastity device. Some don't. Some actually do have penetrative vaginal with the subs they keep in chastity. Some don't. Me thinks its to bad She's (?) gone already ... [sm=agree.gif]

ExtraVaganza -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (4/30/2017 12:17:33 PM)
BDSM is 90% of BRAINS not your holes. Even if sub's holes are used, it's nothing when he or she doesn't feel that...Being used, being under control of powerful and extremely sexy lady. Doing whatever she requires, catching slightest changing in her voice to fit her mood, to throw yourself on the floor so she can keep her feet clean...many-many-many other forms. And for Female Dommes it is absolutely psychological - enjoy your endless and limitless power over this tiny shabby and submissive male, realizing that FEMALE is a queen to all LIFE on this planet and men were created only to amuse ladies, make their life easier, serve them! Ahh if You experienced it once, it's just like a drug. These states are called subspace and domspace. 99% of woman orgasm is mental. It doesnt require any penetration :) Have fun! Extravaganza

EgoCentricBrat -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (5/3/2017 3:32:15 PM)
I don't have sex at all. I DO have submissives in chastity and I can't imagine any of them asking me this. Mostly because it isn't their business. It's not their concern whether I get off. Also not all Dommes are the same. And I'm not sure why you feel we all NEED penetration or sexual interaction. Especially with a man

tamaka -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (5/3/2017 3:57:17 PM)
With an hitachi

AtUrCervix -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (5/9/2017 4:33:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LvnFdom I am new to femdom world but there is a question on my mind. If submissive partner is in chastity then how does domina fully satisfy herself without penetration. Of course there is oral for example but surely she still has cravings for penetration. So what exactly dominant partner do to relieve there cravings for penetration. Do cuckolding and femdom go hand and hand, as that might be the only way for her to sexually (penetratition) fully satisfy herself. Do Dominas still crave penetration or their submissives are able to satisfy them. Cash.

AnguissetteD -> RE: How Domina fully satisfy themselves without penetration? (5/13/2017 2:15:47 AM)
I enjoy penetration. I like to fuck my sub in various ways and be fucked. Strap ons are a fantastic thing and I adore mine. . I dislike chastity. I enjoy it when I orgasm and my sub orgasms. I am sexual with my fiancé. Other subs I play with there is no sex. We are not one size fits all

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