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LadyPact -> RE: Don't They Enjoy It? (3/25/2017 9:00:25 PM)
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ORIGINAL: respectmen
LP
My bad
That's not actually your fault. I'm a little lost on it, myself.
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Yes, I notice that. I don't consider you as a complainer at all. But it's undeniable that there isn't a shortage of women who do around these forums. This certain part of discussion came up with the case with needles. It wasn't about you to begin with.
Nope. Won't do that, either.
If anybody was using CM as their primary method of finding partners, I'd be sketchy. I'm not saying it can't happen. It's just that it's not in the odds.
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You are entitled to your own rules as much as the people who send you an email. The crux of the matter is judgment/prejudice. If you don't want people to approach you with a conversation about BDSM, I suggest you don't hang on a BDSM site. If you don't want a person
It's crap.
Over the years, I've received thousands of emails that werent BDSM first. People really don't have to lead with their kinks/fetishes/sexuality first.
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Of course a woman gets a ton more emails than a male. It doesn't matter how many you get, it shouldn't be at a different standard if men get unwanted emails compared to a woman. We all do on any personals site. A fact of life. It's pathetic and useless to complain about it.
No. We don't ALL do.
Whether you want to admit it or not, your experience is different.
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As I mentioned a while ago in this thread or another, if women in general didn't expect men to do the work in initiating contact, they would get far less unwanted emails as the people who send unwanted emails would be receiving emails from women who may fancy them. Therefore, it would make these men less inclined to send 10 emails to different women instead of one or a couple. As men are mostly expected to do most or all the work in initiating contact, it makes men less choosy in approaching someone.
Nah. They wouldn't. Due to the imbalance of sites like this, there would still be plenty of males who would contact everything with tits. I'm a good example of it.
Except for saying "get away from me" with three exclamation points, most people who don't know me shouldn't send me email. Happens, anyway. Between here and Fet, do you get at least a dozen emails a day? If you do, how many of them are good play partners?
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