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"Switch" with seasons - 3/28/2017 11:28:45 PM

MichaelKeusch

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Hello, good morning or good evening!

As my profile and Introduction indicates, I dealing around with a little problem right now.

I would consider myself as a season-switch. that means, I am in dom or sub mood and mode mostly depending on the seasons and some other influences, like relation I am in, job success and so on.
During the very last years of my life (actually always), I have always been in relations, where I was the dom leading Part.
My sub-side was only given space in some minor affairs, since from my inner view i am some kind of unable to switch with the same person, which means, i can not be sub to the person i normally dominate.

My Question now is the following:
I am really that exotic or are there more persons out there, which feel similar?
Persons, who can not switch with the same partner or who's inner moods and modes switch with seasons or something similar?

regards, michael(a)

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RE: "Switch" with seasons - 3/29/2017 6:23:42 AM

DesFIP

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Many people do not switch with the same partner. Only if they feel a certain energy can they dom or sub.

I'm sub but only with the right partner. With anyone else it's power neutral, neither given nor taken.

I'm curious if you suffer also from S.A.D. Or if taking vitamin D III in 5,000 IU changes this. Since most people who are sensitive to seasonal changes do fall into those categories.

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RE: "Switch" with seasons - 3/29/2017 8:56:03 AM

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I am a switch because complete mutual pleasures are the best. Terri. x

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RE: "Switch" with seasons - 3/29/2017 10:08:08 PM

MichaelKeusch

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Hello FIP!
Thanks for the Reply!

I used the term "Switch with Seasons" more as a synonym. so i am not 100% congruent with the seasons.
As far as I monitor it, my mood/mode, my dom-side is also often stronger in Dec. and Jan.
But what i wanted to tell is, that this phases last several weeks to month.
The only thing i tend to monitor, is that the sub-Phases seems to last longer and come more often during the last Years.

It is also something, which is not triggered by a Partner directly. Of coarse when I am in a relation I am mostly true dom , but even than very short periods( several hours to some days) came when feeling the other side...

I also tried to figure out my different mood/mode separated from most external affairs. only out of myself (not only by myself). Therefore I am now just trying to be as honest to myself as possible, to figure out how to design my "second half".
But as you might know to be honest to yourself is not always that easy. Society, educational background and environment have left their marks...

regards, michael(a)

P.S.
I also would like to add, that I am not really unhappy at the moment or during the past years.
I do not feel a real psychological strain about my gender or mood/mode its more like a constantly itching ....

< Message edited by MichaelKeusch -- 3/29/2017 10:26:39 PM >

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RE: "Switch" with seasons - 4/1/2017 2:05:40 PM

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I switch with ladies, but always sub to men and only in the bedroom for me.

plenty of people feel the way you do I think.

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RE: "Switch" with seasons - 4/2/2017 12:31:14 AM

MichaelKeusch

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Thank you shiftyw!

I guess, I understand, what you mean.

After all, I think you did not got me in total.
What I mean, is that my mood/modes change independent from any Partner. That I do not switch because of a Partner, more looking for a appropriate (Play)Partner because of my mood/Mode.
Until now, that are mostly girls, i have to admit. but I also have had couples, so I am not total newbie to that...

regards, michael(a)

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