There was never any of the "butt plug in at work" nonsense, which to me works better on film than in reality.
This thread is so old, but looking at this comment and what I know now. I mean, I got to know a woman who does not have a master, but actually does wear a butt plug to work everyday by her own self voluntarily, because it makes her feel good.
And no matter how outrageous a demand may seem and unrealistic for most regular women.
There will always be somehow someone out there who can actually love it. The real difficulty is fate helping you to meet that person who blends with you perfectly.
There are some protocol in my old relationship that I have seen people wrote on here that is unrealistic and just a porn dream or whatever. Yet we lived it daily joyfully because we both enjoyed it and never broke protocol. Which includes bed time at 10pm sharp and waking up at 4am sharp everyday wake my master up with a blowjob, and things like that, doesn't matter if my job only starts at 12pm and ends at 8pm then. I never broke protocol because, I enjoyed it. That's why I was so motivated to religiously follow it. It was what I dream about and what I wanted and I found a man who wanted the same things too back then and executed it for me.
I guess in a way, my ex wasn't making me do anything I didn't want to do.
But if a dominant is forcing a sub to do stuffs she doesn't really wanna do, that's when it becomes hard to keep to it. Because she doesn't enjoy doing it.
Honestly, if you enjoy doing something, it is easy. If you find it troublesome. You'd hate it and find it a pain to follow. No right or wrong way. Only compatibility. And whether the style of dominance is suitable for you.