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Finding real owner - 4/26/2017 12:54:35 PM

Gimpgirldollslv

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I am a sweet natured peach of Tv sub how do you find real owners?

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RE: Finding real owner - 4/26/2017 3:47:50 PM

DesFIP

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Try looking to have a relationship instead of finding someone to satisfy all your sexual fantasies.
You would be surprised how wanting to make your partner's life easier instead of making it all about your dick appeals a great deal more.

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RE: Finding real owner - 4/27/2017 8:25:33 PM

Dommerules

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DesFip! You hit the nail on the head! Hopefully this statement will give these so called subs something to think about!

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RE: Finding real owner - 4/28/2017 3:50:03 AM

aurorapro

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Most subs seeking ownership reach out to a Domme that they may want to serve first. You send a very polite email expressing what you are seeking. Then you wait on the answer. If you are then granted permission to meet or have a session with him/her you go! You may go through an interview process because she or he may want to pick your brain first before they decide if you are what they need or if you are worthy to be considered. I will tell you, it can be a very long process. Having someone own you is an honor and a position not to be taken lightly! Your very existence will be to serve your owner whole heartily, you must be willing to give up self and live to please them how ever they see fit. It is not easy to be a slave to someone, it is and can be very hard at times as your owner may push and pull you mentally and physically in so many different directions, that you may not know which way or where the sun is located LOL! And lets not forget about all the testing and punishments you may have to go through before he/she may eventually collar you! I hope this helps

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RE: Finding real owner - 4/28/2017 9:16:47 AM

MsLadySue

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Your very existence will be to serve your owner whole heartily, you must be willing to give up self and live to please them how ever they see fit. It is not easy to be a slave to someone, it is and can be very hard at times as your owner may push and pull you mentally and physically in so many different directions, that you may not know which way or where the sun is located LOL! And lets not forget about all the testing and punishments you may have to go through before he/she may eventually collar you! I hope this helps

That may be how you do things as a pro, but you don't speak for the rest of us. Personally I don't do the mind games and make a sub/slave miserable by keeping them off balance. The boy I collared knows exactly where he stands with me at all times. I do not play games as he's precious to me and deserves to be treated as the treasure he is.

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