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Then why do transgender need boobs and make up IF they think feminine is more than make up and boobs? The reality to me is, for example, if they prefer boys sexually, then they can be gay. Why do they need boobs? The reason why biological women need boobs is to produce milk for their babies. But why do male who wants to be female need boobs IF it's not the boobs that they are into having, the physical appearance of having a boob?
This would be fine *if* you are only looking at nature's reason for a woman to have breasts. Yes, breast feeding for off-spring. However, I don't think you are looking at the whole picture.
You have no children, correct? Why do you need boobs?
I haven't breast-fed in twenty-five years, so technically, my breasts no longer have a function. I have no problem stepping up to the plate and saying I would be devastated if I had to have a mastectomy due to something like breast cancer. It's cool if you think having breasts isn't a part of your gender identity, but I think you'd probably be kidding yourself.
Try sitting down and talking to any woman who has HAD to have her breasts removed due to illness. It's not a flippant thing.
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To me, it's clearly a very physical fixation thing. I don't know why drastic surgery is needed, unless it is that man's dream to be a female, then, okay, fine. It's his dream and his ambition to look like a female. So fine, go do it!
What? Do you think trans* folks look at breast augmentation like they are getting new toys to play with? If, in your identity, you felt that your body was horribly disfigured, would you get surgery to fix it?
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But with a child, if they start exhibiting female interests, like make up, wearing dresses, lingerie or playing with dolls. To me, that should not be taken as signs that, this kid is meant to be female. He could just happen to be a male who loves female things.
I really don't get why you are trying to confuse this with something as simple as a little person liking to play with trucks or they prefer the color pink.
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Precisely, and you know what? I am one of those people in life who never succumb to peer pressure. I dress as a man ALL I like. And I will love boys things ALL I want. But I love to fuck men, not women. And I like having a vagina, do not crave to have a cock. Because I personally don't find cock attractive looking things. They feel good inside of me, but they do not look good ever to me. So I don't ever wanna own one of those on my body. I would gladly give away my boobs though, I think they are annoying, and in the way of everything, but I was blessed with Cup A and a Flat Chest. So no drastic measures needed there.
I don't think it's as simple as you think it is.
Part of the problem is you are doing what a lot of people do. Confusing sexual orientation with gender identity. Who a person wants to have sex with doesn't really have anything to do with who a person is as an individual.
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And I feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with my preferences. I hated wearing dresses. I hated dolls. I hated wearing jewellery. I hate make up. High heels. I don't feel the need to change into a male just because I hate almost all the normal things that women love.
Do you even realize how idiotic I find the people who try to tell me on these forums that I must want to be a man because I happen to like being a Dominant woman. Oh, Good God, I must want to be a man because I LIKE things like sadism or pegging? Or, because that person happens to identify as male and I identify as female, they think they have the sack to help me 'find' my submissive nature? Do you have any idea of how ludicrous I find these people to be?
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THIS is what is needed when you have a son who loves girlie things. Don't tell him there is anything wrong with him and he NEEDS to be girl so that he can feel normal. Why can't what he likes and enjoys be normal, and what's uniquely him?
It's not about other people telling the kid their is something wrong with them.
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I never felt suicidal from it, because I have always been a strong unbendable personality. When all my friends smoke marijuana or took LSD, I was the only one who refused, in SPITE of lots of pressure and teasing about not taking it. Because I don't see the point of taking something that is unnecessary and harmful to my body. I prefer to destroy my body by eating something more pleasurable like chocolates and ice cream.
This is the way it should be.
Greta, I hate to tell ya... You just aren't the arbitrarily decision maker in these things. There are a dozen or so people on these forums that think the same way. Heck, I'm probably one of the most self-centered people around here, but I seriously don't want to play God and tell people who they have to be.
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I always believed in the concept of "Embrace your own individuality". We are all different, and not necessary we need to be drawn to love what's typical of our gender.
This means if a boy loves dolls. It doesn't mean he has to be a girl. There is nothing wrong in a boy who loves dolls. Alot of young boys like cute things! Like Pokemon! Maybe even My Little Pony! Dolls are cute! Can be Cute! Embrace his own individuality!
That's what I advocate.
So, you are in the position to tell other people who they have to be, based on YOUR decision. Good luck with that. 
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