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Cum eating - 4/30/2017 10:35:06 AM   
justasubby


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I have never had to eat my own cum but I have recently started to serve a Dominant Lady who is going to require me to do so. So my questions are how common is this among women and then how did you bridge the gap between never having to do it and getting your sub to perform as you desire. Just trying to get a good handle on something I will be required to do shortly.

Thank you for your answers in advance
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RE: Cum eating - 4/30/2017 11:54:29 AM   
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Hey
It's pretty common among dominant ladies. Remember - You gotta please her, amuse her. That's your main target. Usually, it happens in the end of the session, when adrenaline, excitement and euphoria comes to natural climax. It would be so easy for You as you get into your subspace. A lot of responsibility on your Domme too. Have Fun!

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RE: Cum eating - 5/5/2017 11:10:36 AM   
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I found I needed to do it quickly after ejaculating or I lost the urge or desire to swallow any cum even if I wanted to please my Mistress. It is as if there is a mental block that says it will not be a good thing to do. It does become easier after it has been done several times. Any Mistresses I had the privilege to serve would insist I swallow my cum any time I was permitted to orgasm which was not very frequently. Eventually you just take it for granted and accept it as humiliation and surrender of control to Your Mistress. It is the price to be paid for being permitted pleasure.

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RE: Cum eating - 5/6/2017 12:33:44 PM   
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I found I needed to do it quickly after ejaculating or I lost the urge or desire to swallow any cum even if I wanted to please my Mistress.



Keep in mind that this is probably exactly the reason it's such an attractive thing for your Mistress to order you to do.

Dominant women get off on controlling the other party. The greater the control, the greater the enjoyment.
Thus, the more an action affirms that there is actual control in place, the greater the satisfaction from ordering the act and seeing it completed.

To put that into a perspective you might find easier to understand:
If you order somebody to eat chocolate, while they really like and enjoy eating chocolate, their obedience might be perfect when they eat the chocolate, but the experience is not fully satisfying, because they probably would have eaten the chocolate anyways, even if you didn't tell them to do so.
However, if instead of ordering them to eat chocolate you order them to eat something they hate -brussel sprouts for example, then their obedience to you is affirmed in a much bigger way, because if they eat the brussel sprouts anyways even though they hate it, you know that they're only doing so as a direct response to your command, which in turn show that you have a great degree of actual control over their actions.

Most submissives have a momentary lapse in their deepest desires for submissive actions right after they cum.
That's because a lot of their desire for submission is directly fueled by the fact that being submissive turns them on, creating a great desire for submission, because it increases their own arousal, which is a pleasant state.

However, after they cum there's less of a desire for continued arousal because their body needs to replenish some of the hormones, etc, before it can built up to that peek arousal again. Because of the lessened desire for arousal, there's also a lessened desire for submission.

Thus, if your Mistress orders you to do something right after you cum. Especially something that's difficult, or distasteful, and you obey, then it will increase her enjoyment from your obedience, because she knows that it comes purely from a desire to please her, instead of from your own desire to increase your own arousal through obedience.

If you just came, that means that she helped you to increase your arousal to such a level that you had an orgasm and are sexually satisfied from it.
Now is your chance to show your gratitude for that, and pay her back, by doing something that shows her that your obedience to her is genuine, and not just self-serving, and that she has actual control over you. Which in turn which increase her arousal and sexual satisfaction from playing with you.


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RE: Cum eating - 5/14/2017 5:39:30 AM   
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I have been made to eat my cum many times. It is something I hate doing but do what I am told to do. I don't think that I will ever get used to it.

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RE: Cum eating - 5/15/2017 5:24:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: experiment2

I found I needed to do it quickly after ejaculating or I lost the urge or desire to swallow any cum even if I wanted to please my Mistress.



Keep in mind that this is probably exactly the reason it's such an attractive thing for your Mistress to order you to do.

Dominant women get off on controlling the other party. The greater the control, the greater the enjoyment.
Thus, the more an action affirms that there is actual control in place, the greater the satisfaction from ordering the act and seeing it completed.



OP, Just had a very similar conversation with a Dominant Lady who is a friend of mine. She left me with the distinct impression that your humiliation and distaste are a huge turn on for Her!

So keep working at it, eventually when you finish, Your Lady might have something a little more tasteful and delicious for your dessert.




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RE: Cum eating - 5/22/2017 5:40:43 AM   
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i have not thought of the effects eating/swallowing cum had on my Mistress and the potential that it gave Her satisfying and perhaps some pleasure knowing She had control over me and my actions. had i thought about it more perhaps i would have been more receptive and willing. on several occasions after an orgasm the last thing i wanted to do was taste my own cum. sometimes i would just dispose of the cum and plead with my Mistress for forgiveness and promising to do it next time. At some point i started to swallow it and accept my submission. i hated the taste but felt the satisfaction from pleasing my Mistress.

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RE: Cum eating - 5/23/2017 11:14:15 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: justasubby

I have never had to eat my own cum but I have recently started to serve a Dominant Lady who is going to require me to do so. So my questions are how common is this among women and then how did you bridge the gap between never having to do it and getting your sub to perform as you desire. Just trying to get a good handle on something I will be required to do shortly.

Thank you for your answers in advance


In my experience, 99% of men would pay a woman to eat her cum. Vanilla ones that is.

So cum eating is like something most men die to do. And many even get super upset if they cannot eat your cum.

Oh this is about eating your own cum. Why would you not taste your own cum?

Gosh one of the vanilla guys I see absolutely enjoy licking his own cum off me. And it was his request.

And I have personally tasted my own cum, my own blood. My view is, if it's good enough for someone else to eat them. It's good enough for me to eat my own liquids. They came from my own body.



< Message edited by Greta75 -- 5/23/2017 11:16:54 AM >

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RE: Cum eating - 5/23/2017 2:27:52 PM   
UllrsIshtar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: experiment2

i have not thought of the effects eating/swallowing cum had on my Mistress


Which is exactly the point in ordering most guys to do it: They'd never even considered doing it, or desired to do it, for themselves.
Thus, making them do it is a clear affirmation that the only reason that it was done was for her.

Which, when you get off on domination and the exercising of power over others, is a huge turn on.

Cum eating is an affirmation to your Mistress that you are pleasing her, instead of using her as a meaningless prop/actor whose only function is to fulfill your fantasies by pretending to order you to do the things you really want to do for yourself.

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RE: Cum eating - 5/23/2017 6:47:06 PM   
Greta75


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So I really wonder what happens if the man naturally loves eating cum, his own or hers. She would have to think of something else!

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RE: Cum eating - 5/24/2017 1:01:03 AM   
longwayhome


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quote:

ORIGINAL: experiment2

i have not thought of the effects eating/swallowing cum had on my Mistress and the potential that it gave Her satisfying and perhaps some pleasure knowing She had control over me and my actions. had i thought about it more perhaps i would have been more receptive and willing. on several occasions after an orgasm the last thing i wanted to do was taste my own cum. sometimes i would just dispose of the cum and plead with my Mistress for forgiveness and promising to do it next time. At some point i started to swallow it and accept my submission. i hated the taste but felt the satisfaction from pleasing my Mistress.


I think you might just be protesting too much.

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RE: Cum eating - 5/26/2017 9:18:15 AM   
seekingOwnertoo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: experiment2

i have not thought of the effects eating/swallowing cum had on my Mistress and the potential that it gave Her satisfying and perhaps some pleasure knowing She had control over me and my actions. had i thought about it more perhaps i would have been more receptive and willing. on several occasions after an orgasm the last thing i wanted to do was taste my own cum. sometimes i would just dispose of the cum and plead with my Mistress for forgiveness and promising to do it next time. At some point i started to swallow it and accept my submission. i hated the taste but felt the satisfaction from pleasing my Mistress.


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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar

Which is exactly the point in ordering most guys to do it: They'd never even considered doing it, or desired to do it, for themselves.
Thus, making them do it is a clear affirmation that the only reason that it was done was for her.

Which, when you get off on domination and the exercising of power over others, is a huge turn on.

Cum eating is an affirmation to your Mistress that you are pleasing her, instead of using her as a meaningless prop/actor whose only function is to fulfill your fantasies by pretending to order you to do the things you really want to do for yourself.


Which is what males should be asking a Mistress!

Clearly, Dominance and submission is about one person being in charge while the other obeys and serves.

Basically the other submits to the WILL of the Dominant!

submissives need to find satisfaction and pleasure in serving the Dominant's needs!

And as unnatural as it seems, when i love a Lady ... striving to serve and please Her becomes very natural.

So please do remember this. Obeying and serving a Dominant Lady is a form of Love that many have not attained.



experiment2 - do keep striving and learning to please. It is of value in your life. Meanwhile it is refreshing that this thread gave you some insight!






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RE: Cum eating - 5/28/2017 2:59:10 AM   
Saadia


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Why would you not want to? Just think of the nutritional benefits of cum...and it tastes delicious. Than again, I can only speak for my own cum...I have yet to taste anyone else's...

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RE: Cum eating - 6/16/2017 2:17:36 AM   
maringloria69


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I have served a couple for almost 3 years. in training regardless of sex you must swallow semen.

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RE: Cum eating - 6/29/2017 2:03:43 PM   
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When a sub balks at being told to eat his own cum, I remind them that men have long expected women to give men a blow job and swallow, so why would it be any different? I specifically ask them if they have ever had a BJ to completion where the woman swallowed. If so, they it is not unreasonable to ever expect him to eat his own cum. Men have to get over this idea that it is disgusting, I agree that getting them to eat it right after they have been given permission to release because it is not as palatable when it gets cold.

If they have a fetish for feet, breast, ass or pussy worship, I start with not letting them feed that hunger unless it is with their cum coating it first. Give them a little bit of what they want with something they don't so they start to associate the good with the bad so that they are more willing to engage in that practice.

And I tell them how much it turns Me on when they not only obey that order, but do it with eagerness and relish it. I tell them how much I am disappointed when a sub just pushes it around with his tongue with a grimace.



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RE: Cum eating - 12/14/2022 12:06:41 PM   
Byrdie


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I guess start with your pre-cum - whatever leaks out when you dribble. That should have minimal sperm in it, and thus taste relatively neutral.

Then there are all the tricks to better tasting ejaculate that get posted from time to time: no meat, no beer, eat pineapple, etc.

From what I understand, eating it immediately - when it's fresh and warm - will go much easier than if you balk and wait for it to cool.


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