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Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 6:59:08 PM

AllisonSophia2

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Why is it wrong to not only not like men, nut not to trust them either?

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 7:05:52 PM

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Why is it wrong to not only not like men, nut not to trust them either?

It's not wrong. I don't like women and i don't trust women either.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 8:14:15 PM

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You can like or trust anyone you want.

But are you really saying you wouldn't buy a tv from a male clerk because you don't feel you can trust him to tell you the truth about its features?

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 8:23:10 PM

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I'm saying that I don't trust a man to keep it in his pants. This girl's body will only belong to a real woman, preferably a lesbian. No man will ever fuck me or force me to suck him off.

This girl's body is off limits th men...period.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 8:44:16 PM

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What makes you think one would want you?

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 11:46:09 PM

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So you're saying that this isn't your preferences, who you are attracted to etc. that actually you're bi but can't indulge sexually with men unless you find them trustworthy?

Interesting that you have no qualms being sexual with a woman you find untrustworthy.

Me? I'm only attracted sexually to men I am in a loving relationship with. Yet there are still many men and women I find trustworthy and enjoy knowing.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/3/2017 11:54:10 PM

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Why is it wrong to not only not like men, nut not to trust them either?

Why are you asking?
And who says it is wrong?

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 12:01:47 AM

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I find the whole question a bit rich coming from an m2f transexual.

Seems like she's projecting her own self hatred to every other male out there.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 4:53:59 AM

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Why is it wrong to not only not like men, nut not to trust them either?

I don't like women in general and I don't trust them either!

Nothing wrong!

And I have a re-ocurring life patterns of women letting me down some how. So we are all shaped by our experiences.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 4:55:38 AM

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This girl's body is off limits th men...period.

Your Choice. Your Right!
If a man touches you and you didn't agree to it.

It's called sexual assault!

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 10:31:04 AM

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I don't tar everyone with the same brush. I find it an exceptionally foolish thing to do, and that comes from someone that is female, was abused by a male as a child, likes sex with males, and has been cheated on. Not every man can be judged by another man's actions, not every man can be judged by the person you were as a male, and I find that neither sex are any greater than the other when it comes to trust.

There is a certain level of trust that is given to people that you allow in to your life, from there you give varying degrees of further trust that they earn by their actions, or lack of, depending on situations you go through. Time alone tells you just how much you can really trust a person, or not.

However, it's up to you to have your preference, but I'm not sure it really warranted a thread.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 11:07:07 AM

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I don't like women in general and I don't trust them either!

Yet you have so many lesbian friends that you presume to speak for them. Interesting.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 12:51:53 PM

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Why is it wrong to not only not like men, nut not to trust them either?

I've read your posts, profile and journal. You mention your wife dying, suicidal ideation, refusal to seek help and mistrust of men etc. As a m>f trans, all the emotional and mental health issues must be making it hard for you to pass pre-op requirements. Have you sought out a professional who specializes in transgender mental, physical and emotional health issues that can help you to a place where you can find a way out of all these roadblocks toward feeling better about yourself?

One step forward might be finding a transgender support group. They might have the resources and networking experiences to get you on a better and healthier path.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 1:48:21 PM

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I just lost my 5th psychiatrist because she said she's not qualified to hand my case and everyshrink I call reject me, so, I'm quickly running out of shrinks.short of going to Atlanta, which is a long way for my and financially straining for my.

Welcome to America people.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/4/2017 2:07:34 PM

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I just lost my 5th psychiatrist because she said she's not qualified to hand my case and everyshrink I call reject me, so, I'm quickly running out of shrinks.short of going to Atlanta, which is a long way for my and financially straining for my.

Welcome to America people.

Move to California.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/5/2017 6:51:02 PM

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Posted new Journal entry to make things clear for those who don't quite understand me.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/5/2017 7:17:48 PM

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Posted new Journal entry to make things clear for those who don't quite understand me.

Go on Craigs list and find a roomate wherever you want to live. I would suggest Oregon.

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/5/2017 10:47:51 PM

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I don't like women in general and I don't trust them either!

Yet you have so many lesbian friends that you presume to speak for them. Interesting.

Benefits of coming from an All Girls Schools. Many really came out much later when they are older but then you realise how many were not Straight before when you find out.

And believe it or not, in my job, I also have met many Lesbians who have befriended me and asked me out.

Yes, I don't know why I have Lesbian friends at all. Technically I shouldn't have. But my Female Best Friend in that All Girls School, whenever she ask me out, it's like a whole Lesbian community. She came out much later in her twenties, moved in with her Lesbian girlfriend, although I should have seen signs that she was lesbian since we were kids, and then when she "outted herself" to me, she told me I was the first few people she "outed" to. She was Christian, her church crucified her, cast her out. And I was an Atheist. After that, she invited me to hang out with the Lesbian community.

Lesbian community today are like BDSM community with their munches, with Lesbian gatherings. So if she ask me to join her at her "gatherings", it's literally ALL Lesbians in it. From there I got to know more Lesbians. And they were welcoming and starting asking me out individually too. I think the Lesbian Community in Singapore is still not very accepted so for them to meet a Straight Person who doesn't think their orientation is a big deal, is not very common.

Yes I still don't like women, but does not mean I don't have alot Female Acquaintances. It just means, in my hierarchy of friends, they would never be my closest. All the top 10 closest friends are all male. I mingle with women but I just don't trust them!

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/5/2017 10:49:10 PM

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I don't trust Craig's List. Too many bad things happen on there

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RE: Why is it so wrong... - 5/5/2017 11:00:31 PM

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Time alone tells you just how much you can really trust a person, or not.

In My situation. Time always prove to be true. All my Female Friendships don't end well anyway.

At some point of time, I always felt backstabbed by a Female Friend, the ones I make a mistake of letting too close. Even this female Lesbian who used to my BFF in an all girls school. She did something so simple. She was jealous about my romantic interest in a male. She confronted him without my permission, and told him about my feelings for him, and wanted him to make it clear to me if he feels the same, which embarrassed him and embarrassed me, as she did it quite publicly, in a party that I held, where I had my friends and his friends come over. This was before she came out. I never forgave her for this and naturally just distance myself from her. After this incident, she went from one of my closest female friends to an acquaintance. When she came out, it was a difficult time for her, as she grew up in a very religious christian family. She told me her church reaction, her grandma reaction, her parents reaction, she was getting disowned, it was bad. At this time, I still have not forgiven her about the incident. But I did put that aside, to just tell her, don't worry about it, enjoy her partner, and just enjoy being herself.

But anyway, for me, that friendship is really over on my end. The only reason is because she is often the one that still contacts me. But I never contact her. And usually that's how it is with my friendships with females.

But that is one small incident in a long list of incidences with my history of female friends. The betrayals, non stop!

Maybe I attract a certain type of Females as I got issues with Females. What they call, Fulfilling self-created reality.

But I don't have the same problems with male friends. And I don't feel like I am lacking anything by not letting Females close to me since I am not sexually attracted to them anyway!

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