I have spent the last three years actively looking for a sub. I have had limited success because each time I get close to finding one the bail out. I'm looking for one who is serious and if you're much older than me don't bother message. If you're serious and I'm mean just need to know where to come get back to me.
What do you have to offer?
Your profile is all about what you want, but it doesn't state what your houseboy will be getting out of the equation.
Yes, yes, yes, I know, he'll be getting all that wonderful kinky control he is looking for as well... the problem with that is that there are a 100 other guys like you willing to offer him that exact same thing.
And some of them are better looking than you.
And some of them are smarter than you.
And some of them are younger than you.
And some of them are wealthier than you.
And some of them have more interesting lives than you.
And some of them are a better match on kinks for him than you.
Out of all those guys who are willing to offer your houseboy all that deliciously kinky life he's looking for, what makes you different from the rest of them?
What makes you better than the rest of them?
What makes you a better fit for him than the rest of them?
Why should he pick to wear your chastity belt, instead of that of another? What do you offer him, that makes you the better choice for him?
Figure that out, and figure out a way to communicate it on your profile and in person, and you'll find the boy you're looking for.
If you can't do that, you'll always be passed by for another Dom who's more X than you, or who is -at the very least- better at communicating what he's got to offer.
All of this!!!
In addition, OP, it would be my suggestion that on a site like this, you might want to consider changing your main profile pic.
As a bottom-sub i prefer an "honest" picture that closely depicts the Man i am meeting. I have gone out so many times to meet a prospective Dom and the Adonis depicted on the profile turns out to be more like Quasimodo.
I am not shallow when it comes to looks, but honesty is important.