Born this way.
I am brought up and taught to be a strong independent woman who can lead and also to believe that I can do anything and everything that men can do, and also encouraged to do better than them in everything. While I didn't have a great mother, but as a modern woman, it felt like she did 100% everything. Run her own business, take care of kids, and take care of her husband. Her husband, my dad, seriously just works. No house hold responsiiblites, no children responsibilities. No financial responsibilities too as my mom made way more money than him. So essentially, all my dad's job was to go to work, come home, relax, watch TV, sleep, go back to work, and get serve hand and foot by my mom, despite my mom, taking care of everything and running her own business and company as well.
So in a way, my mom was the textbook modern woman. So in terms of "nuture", that is the person I was "nurtured" to be. To be capable of everything, practically essentially, when I seriously look at the role of my father. He was completely redundant in our lives. He doesn't bring home the dough. He doesn't take care of kids. He doesn't take care of the home, do housework. Precisely what was his role except being like the 4th child for my mom to take care of and why did my mom need him at all except for sex? I have no idea. He was completely useless even for emotional support.
But what is nature for me, is whatever BDSM kinks I am into, and that I am a sexual bottom. Knew that since 5 years old. Once I hit teens, I simply find boys to entertain my kinks of being a sexual bottom.
So I have a very aggressive dominant stance for a submissive, but I was nurtured this way.