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Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 2:31:31 AM

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So many people have claimed that Fetlife is so superior. The main complaint is that Collarchat/collarme/collarspace are just too full of scammers. Well tonight I saw that there was a new post in one of the groups I belong to over on fet so I decided to check it out. It was amazing and amusing and rather sad. This "woman" said her boy had left her and she was horny and needed NSA sex. Country didn't matter as she travels world wide. So I clicked on her profile. She joined 4 hours ago. One hour ago she started joining groups and posting her plea, in a variety of ways for sex. All asked that you go off site to contact her and the contact was a different name in most of the posts. I started counting the groups she joined and the posts she's made. Figure she's joined nearly 200 groups and made a post in each one in just that one hour. Seems as if someone has gotten around fetlife's ways of trying to avoid those types of scams. As they say, where there is a will, there is a way, and a way was found.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 6:23:33 AM

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Fetlife is awful . . . even dungeon bunnies that are a regular part of the din at local events & parties have dumb-ass shit in their profiles. Things like being members of seven different houses, having 20 sister slaves and being in service to a plethora of people. None of whom they have ever met in real life. It's second life online for BDSMers. I rarely go there because I really don't care about seeing what pics or videos my friends have been perving lately.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 6:45:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Fetlife is awful . . . even dungeon bunnies that are a regular part of the din at local events & parties have dumb-ass shit in their profiles. Things like being members of seven different houses, having 20 sister slaves and being in service to a plethora of people. None of whom they have ever met in real life. It's second life online for BDSMers. I rarely go there because I really don't care about seeing what pics or videos my friends have been perving lately.

It's not entirely awful. However, it is the way of the world.

When's the last time either of us went cruising for the kink crowd without an electronic device? Those days are over, my friend.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 7:39:41 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
Fetlife is awful . . . even dungeon bunnies that are a regular part of the din at local events & parties have dumb-ass shit in their profiles. Things like being members of seven different houses, having 20 sister slaves and being in service to a plethora of people. None of whom they have ever met in real life. It's second life online for BDSMers. I rarely go there because I really don't care about seeing what pics or videos my friends have been perving lately.

It's not entirely awful. However, it is the way of the world.

When's the last time either of us went cruising for the kink crowd without an electronic device? Those days are over, my friend.

I miss those days.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 8:39:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam
I miss those days.

Me, too.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 9:02:27 AM

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Fetlife site layout 100% I am an absolute fan of that.

The rest is awful. Those in charge, those care taking, those moderating have made it what it is (obviously I don't mean all of them). When all you have is that & liars, cheats, enablers, nay sayers, controllers of free, and honest speech, and opinion, you will simply end up with a concentrate of utter shit. It’s not rocket science. And it was inevitable it would come to that.

And I dont mean everyone on the place is awful either.

Now, ironically if not that "women" spammed the forums but a "man" they would have been removed immediately.

i will always favour a proper, or multi layers, verification stem myself.

And i will also slot a bit of what i said in on another thread the other day
or go to the shop buy a mobile for $1-10 dollars and grab 1000 free sims and jam them into your shit cheap mobile till your we cock heart desires, and register 1000 times like half of that place does - go with the username big titty lesbian or cheating cunt dont tell the wife or mad dangerous stereotype or wrecked whore in need of enabling etc Hell you can become a forum owner. moderator. for the aforementioned, a care taker too. So if you are four year old you can get verified - makes you sick doesn't it

On a more thoughtful note when does the dishonest opinions become more valuable than anyone honest opinion?

that aside the worst site for scam & fake profiles is pof - by volume.

Nookies place does offer the "photo" verification system https://www.datingkinky.com/

alt.com does too
fabswingers too

collarspace.com does too - does that bit still work on here?

fet okc pof etc do not.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 10:37:08 AM

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Eh.

As someone who lives where there is literally 0 events (and none run by folks my own age especially), fetlife connects me to the world. However I hate their forum layout. It's echo chamber style I don't like- I prefer this forum layout.

Also- the profile side is much better designed than here.

But like allllllll else on the internet- it has problems and drawbacks, and won't be perfect.

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RE: Gotta Laugh, Kinda Sad, but heck, it happens - 5/28/2017 7:31:39 PM

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Like all online social networking/dating/find true romance sites, fetlife is nothing but bullshit.

The world needs to change, both online and in real life.

The human race is deteroriating and degenerating, we need to bring back natural selection.

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