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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 8:57:20 PM   
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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/7/2017 9:15:00 PM   
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Again, we have erochic and greta trying to make this about me when women out there who I have nothing to do with have this mentality.

What exactly do these women have to do with me?

The simple fact of the matter is that people can't make a logical explanation why these women are deserving, they seem angry that I am right. Therefore, they turn the attack on me.

Gotta larf



No the fact that you are complaining about this and other men aren't, is logical proof that this experience is exclusive to you and no other men are going through it.

So the common denominator is you. You are the one bringing up the problems you are facing.

You are facing women of "these type of characters". But what is it about YOU? That you are only drawing women towards you with these type of characters that you are complaining about?

I believe in the law of attraction.

And your energy, you will get what you want, what you think. So if you think women are like that. All you are gonna get is women that are like that.

If you aren't surrounded by women who are like that, then you wouldn't have any woman to complain about if you liked them the way they are.

Clearly you are unhappy with the women surrounding you that's why you are complaining about them.

So I am trying to fix your problem that you are complaining about.

Think about why are you attracting all this type of women that you don't like? Why you? Why not other men? Why specifically you?

Many men on here have contributed that they do not share the same experiences as you with women.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 12:56:16 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Oh greta, why do I bother with you? It's like trying to explain things to a kid.

For starters, where am I asking why these women aren't approaching ME? If you can't find an example, well there's the first problem to your stance.

Who knows how it becomes logic to assume that I'm angry and really want these women who I despise because they don't approach me. I made it clear in my thread starter that these women don't deserve to be emailed, to be treated nice, or to have any man period. A chauvinist hypocrite is an instant erection wrecker for me. I couldn't feel turned on over someone who is simply disgusting. So I can't find or feel a need to be angry at these women. I know the usual suspects will claim that to use as a shaming tactic just to simply invalidate me saying anything about it period. How dare a man speak about women's faults. Quick, find a way, any way to falsely invalidate him immediately!

You do understand that I'm not saying that all women do this, right?

You do understand that women do this regardless of their BDSM role, if they're vanilla or not, what site they are on, what part of the world they are in, etc etc. How can I be angry at all these women who I will never get to know if they even exist? I don't even deal with women on collarspace. Does it look like to you that I'm trying to pick up women on here? Laughs

You really need to stop dodging the real topic here. What you and others are doing is shifting the goal post. Instead of attacking my question and my opinion on the matter, a diversion tactic is used, which is a pathetic attempt to try and make this about me and make out that it's my fault and I'm magically connected to these women somehow.

It's either that you are just joining in on the game to dodge the real topic or you are borderline retarded and truly don't have the capability to understand what is really being addressed.

This is a forum and forums are meant for discussions. Probably most of us have our pet topics. I just simply like creating provocative threads to see the opinions from others on here and have a laugh at their raging denial over truths and scraping at the bottom of the barrel for anything imaginable to turn the topic into "anti respectmen".

I don't just despise gynocentrists and/or feminists, I despise the left in general. The right is usually right.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 1:49:46 AM   
Erochic


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Status: offline 		Okay I don't really know you apart from what I've read on here, but your entire premise is wrong.

Some women may think that, others may not.

Yes, the reality is men initiate contact far more than women do. But in my experience that seems to be pretty indiscriminate.
I've been contacted by men who are on the other side of the world (when I'm only looking for local) and who have kinks I don't share.

It would be lovely if the right man for me just dropped into my inbox in the deluge, and maybe for some women that happens - but I'm fishing in a smaller pond so I will and have initiated contact with particular men who caught my attention.

I will check out the profiles of local men who identify as submissive or switch, but if we don't seem to have shared interests (or if I know that they are looking for something that I'm not able to provide) I'll just move on. What's the point of wasting their time or mine.
It also seems pretty arrogant to me to message someone even though I'm not what they are looking for. I live in Asia and there are some guys who state that they are only looking for Asian women. I'm not going to get my knickers in a knot about it - that's their choice.

It's not a game and it's not a battle of the sexes, or some plot to put men down. We all just want to meet someone compatible



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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 1:55:41 AM   
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For starters, where am I asking why these women aren't approaching ME? If you can't find an example, well there's the first problem to your stance.

Wait a minute, so if you are not experiencing this problem yourself. And other men here have also confirm, they do not experience this problem.

THEN WHY are you complaining about a problem that does even exist in your universe?

I am a solution-based person. If you give me a problem. I want to help you to fix it. I am addressing the issue so that you will not face this problem you talking about again.

Now you are saying you have never experienced this problem yourself. And men here also say they have not experienced it.

Then are you making up an imaginary problem?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 2:10:13 AM   
respectmen


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Women Still Aren't Making The First Move Online, But Here's Why We Should

https://www.bustle.com/articles/178785-women-still-arent-making-the-first-move-online-but-heres-why-we-should

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 2:14:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: respectmen

YAWN

Women Still Aren't Making The First Move Online, But Here's Why We Should

https://www.bustle.com/articles/178785-women-still-arent-making-the-first-move-online-but-heres-why-we-should


So my question is. Is this happening to you or not? If it's not happening to you, then what is the problem?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 2:25:15 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		Jesus greta, if you still don't understand what I'm actually talking about and asking at this point, I don't think you can be helped.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 3:59:40 AM   
kiwisub22


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Status: offline 		OK, rm, I read the article - bit fluffy - but I read it. Oddly enough it said pretty much what I said several pages ago - we (humans) are hardwired for men to advance and women retreat, and that things are slowly changing in that department.


So, my question to you is ... what do YOU want?

and don't say for women to make all the contacts online, because if you read your article, you know it isn't going to happen, and not because "women are entitled" but because we just aren't wired that way. To the point where emotionally it probably hurts us and our chances for relationships.

What do you really want behind all the butt-hurt no-one talks to be bullshit.....?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 9:44:29 AM   
respectmen


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Status: offline 		I suggest you go way back to the thread starter to see what exactly I want which is just simply an answer to a question. How are such women deserving of a man's effort when they have no interest doing the same for a man.

This whole thread people keep running away from that question and trying hard to make the thread about me.


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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 2:10:16 PM   
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How are such women deserving of a man's effort when they have no interest doing the same for a man.




Why don't you ask the men that contact women to answer that?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/8/2017 8:45:41 PM   
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How are such women deserving of a man's effort when they have no interest doing the same for a man.




Why don't you ask the men that contact women to answer that?



Your opinion is why shouldn't men pay money to get their sexual desires met. Well why don't you contact the women who give it for free to answer that?

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/9/2017 1:08:34 AM   
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Well why don't you contact the women who give it for free to answer that?

I did. You just conveniently ignored it.




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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/9/2017 4:16:12 AM   
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Your opinion is why shouldn't men pay money to get their sexual desires met. Well why don't you contact the women who give it for free to answer that?



You think all men are here to get their sexual desires met? maybe that's part of the problem.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/9/2017 7:28:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, eighth, ninth, etc. etc. etc. verse same as the first.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/9/2017 9:30:12 AM   
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YAWN

Women Still Aren't Making The First Move Online, But Here's Why We Should

https://www.bustle.com/articles/178785-women-still-arent-making-the-first-move-online-but-heres-why-we-should

Just because they're not making the first move towards you, doesn't mean that they're not approaching men they actually want to fuck, both online and off.

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RE: Women who think it's only the man's job to initiate... - 6/9/2017 1:12:40 PM   
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