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Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 8:48:40 PM

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Hey you all. So I have a fantasy that I desperately want to live out involving real pain and torture with no safe words at all being afforded to me. I have been trying and looking everywhere and just haven't found anyone local who would be willing to help me out here. I'm a Caucasian male in my early 30s living in the Virginia/DC area and my fantasy involves me being a willing subject to hours upon hours of unbearable torture and severe pain play. The grand finale or epitome if you will of my fantasy request is that of a mock execution where I'll be sentenced to death by burning! I want to be tightly secured to a chair that will be inside a bath tub/shower where the water flowing out of the shower head will be fixated ONLY on my stomach. The mistress will then proudly announce my death sentence and slowly turn the shower knob to the point where the water will be scalding hot! The water will only be focused on my stomach where I'll be in excruciating pain! I'll be aroused and throbbing about and desperately trying to escape to no avail. I want this to be as real as possible. Prior to my mock execution I want to experience quite a few hours of torture and pain play. Like a medieval inquisition type of setting. Once again no safe words are to be alloted for my use. Please I am very real about this and if there are any female sadists dommes in the Virginia, DC, or Maryland area that would just love to perform this elaborate torture session onto my helpless body then please get in touch with me! I'm a complete willing male participant looking for that one female sadist living nearby who loves the idea of my mock execution theme.

RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:24:23 PM

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How long did that take to type using only one hand?

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:39:12 PM

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This dude wouldn't last 30 minutes with me when my sadistic side comes out. Probably has no idea what he'd be in for if someone took him up on the challenge.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:42:29 PM

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It's all a great fantasy until someone ties you down so you can't move and truly beats you to the point that you feel if they hit you one more time like that you will surely die.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:43:46 PM

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You may be right! But then again the option for me to resort to any safe words will cease to exist. So therefore my only options during both the torture and mock execution sessions will be to either stay awake and withstand the pain or just hope that I pass out.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:45:19 PM

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No looking to be beaten. More just tortured with pain. Like with a portable heater, heat play, etc. Followed of course by my desired mock execution with the scalding hot water!

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:47:45 PM

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No looking to be beaten. More just tortured with pain. Like with a portable heater, heat play, etc. Followed of course by my desired mock execution with the scalding hot water!

For which one could serve many years in jail.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:51:00 PM

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It would be completely consensual. We would agree beforehand with a confirmation in writing. As long as it's consensual then shouldn't be an issue.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 9:52:12 PM

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It would be completely consensual. We would agree beforehand with a confirmation in writing. As long as it's consensual then shouldn't be an issue.

There is no legal basis which allows you to consent to physical assault or abuse.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 10:33:38 PM

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It would be completely consensual. We would agree beforehand with a confirmation in writing. As long as it's consensual then shouldn't be an issue.

Such a document would be used in court by the prosecution to prove that the Mistress broke the law knowing full well that what she was doing was illegal.

It proves intent, and would aggravate the charges against her.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/21/2017 10:41:50 PM

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No looking to be beaten. More just tortured with pain. Like with a portable heater, heat play, etc. Followed of course by my desired mock execution with the scalding hot water!

Which is exactly the reason you can't find somebody willing to do this: you're taking all the fun for them out of it.

When a sadist/Dominant wants to be in control, they want to ACTUALLY be in control. They don't want to pretend to be in control by following a tight script you laid out and agreed to. That would make them a puppet that you're controlling in order to act out your own fantasy through them.

If you want this kind of consensual non-consent play, you have to actually be willing to submit to whatever the Dominant happens to want to do to you.
If that means hours of hot sauce enemas, or being locked outside in winter naked in the cold, or to be tight chained so that the pain slowly builds over hours from not being able to stretch, or being forced to walk on a treadmill in ballet boots, or having your scrotum stapled together with a surgical stapler, or being beaten instead of all the ways you want to be tortured, then that's what would happen. It has to be the executioners choice, otherwise they're not the one in control, which means there is nothing in it for them.

They have a control fetish.
Not a cater-to-some-random-guy's-fantasies-to-make-him-happy fetish.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/22/2017 1:42:08 AM

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The sad paradox of the do-me bottom kinkster who thinks that he is being submissive because he experiences suffering while his script is being played out.

Coupled with the fact that there is a good chance of physical damage requiring hospital treatment, which is likely to be red-flagged by hospital staff as an assault.

Remind me again what any Domme would get out of this apart from huge risk, hassle and heartache? Someone might just have a matching execution fetish but the practicalities of carrying it out and their wish to control the scene are likely to make the experience disappointing for both of them.

I hope for his sake that he really got himself off typing the words because I suspect that he would find it hard to find someone who he could even pay to do this.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/26/2017 11:06:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: Michael7654

Hey you all. So I have a fantasy that I desperately want to live out involving real pain and torture with no safe words at all being afforded to me. I have been trying and looking everywhere and just haven't found anyone local who would be willing to help me out here. I'm a Caucasian male in my early 30s living in the Virginia/DC area and my fantasy involves me being a willing subject to hours upon hours of unbearable torture and severe pain play. The grand finale or epitome if you will of my fantasy request is that of a mock execution where I'll be sentenced to death by burning! I want to be tightly secured to a chair that will be inside a bath tub/shower where the water flowing out of the shower head will be fixated ONLY on my stomach. The mistress will then proudly announce my death sentence and slowly turn the shower knob to the point where the water will be scalding hot! The water will only be focused on my stomach where I'll be in excruciating pain! I'll be aroused and throbbing about and desperately trying to escape to no avail. I want this to be as real as possible. Prior to my mock execution I want to experience quite a few hours of torture and pain play. Like a medieval inquisition type of setting. Once again no safe words are to be alloted for my use. Please I am very real about this and if there are any female sadists dommes in the Virginia, DC, or Maryland area that would just love to perform this elaborate torture session onto my helpless body then please get in touch with me! I'm a complete willing male participant looking for that one female sadist living nearby who loves the idea of my mock execution theme.

If you are a submissive male with an excessively scripted fantasy for a female domme, you're unlikely to find a stranger who will be willing to fulfill it unless you pay them. Most lifestyle dommes are turned off by subs who focus on what they want first, rather than what they're willing to give.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/27/2017 9:19:33 AM

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You can't pay anyone to do this, the legal risks are too high.
Same for getting someone to do it for real.

Besides many sadists only play with those who enjoy pain.

You have zero experience, you would probably change your mind with the first threat.

There are people who do fire play. Pay them to do that and see what your reaction is and why.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/27/2017 9:34:17 AM

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Fuk off.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/27/2017 9:47:24 AM

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The sad paradox of the do-me bottom kinkster who thinks that he is being submissive because he experiences suffering while his script is being played out.

He isn't submissive, he's a masochist.
Notice he has no interest in servitude, only pain.

I don't know how realistic his fantasy is or how realistic it is for him to expect someone to indulge him, but at least he isn't talking about a life of servitude... just a one-off experience with anyone willing.

OP there might be pros out there who would be willing, but if you've never played before it's probably better to start off with something less extreme.

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 6/27/2017 9:58:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: Michael7654

Hey you all. So I have a fantasy that I desperately want to live out involving real pain and torture with no safe words at all being afforded to me. I have been trying and looking everywhere and just haven't found anyone local who would be willing to help me out here. I'm a Caucasian male in my early 30s living in the Virginia/DC area and my fantasy involves me being a willing subject to hours upon hours of unbearable torture and severe pain play. The grand finale or epitome if you will of my fantasy request is that of a mock execution where I'll be sentenced to death by burning! I want to be tightly secured to a chair that will be inside a bath tub/shower where the water flowing out of the shower head will be fixated ONLY on my stomach. The mistress will then proudly announce my death sentence and slowly turn the shower knob to the point where the water will be scalding hot! The water will only be focused on my stomach where I'll be in excruciating pain! I'll be aroused and throbbing about and desperately trying to escape to no avail. I want this to be as real as possible. Prior to my mock execution I want to experience quite a few hours of torture and pain play. Like a medieval inquisition type of setting. Once again no safe words are to be alloted for my use. Please I am very real about this and if there are any female sadists dommes in the Virginia, DC, or Maryland area that would just love to perform this elaborate torture session onto my helpless body then please get in touch with me! I'm a complete willing male participant looking for that one female sadist living nearby who loves the idea of my mock execution theme.

So you want a session where it's an endless smorgasbord of pain and suffering, followed by an untimely and painful death with no safe words in the mix?

Have you considered marriage?

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 7/3/2017 8:46:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Michael7654

Hey you all. So I have a fantasy that I desperately want to live out involving real pain and torture with no safe words at all being afforded to me. I have been trying and looking everywhere and just haven't found anyone local who would be willing to help me out here. I'm a Caucasian male in my early 30s living in the Virginia/DC area and my fantasy involves me being a willing subject to hours upon hours of unbearable torture and severe pain play. The grand finale or epitome if you will of my fantasy request is that of a mock execution where I'll be sentenced to death by burning! I want to be tightly secured to a chair that will be inside a bath tub/shower where the water flowing out of the shower head will be fixated ONLY on my stomach. The mistress will then proudly announce my death sentence and slowly turn the shower knob to the point where the water will be scalding hot! The water will only be focused on my stomach where I'll be in excruciating pain! I'll be aroused and throbbing about and desperately trying to escape to no avail. I want this to be as real as possible. Prior to my mock execution I want to experience quite a few hours of torture and pain play. Like a medieval inquisition type of setting. Once again no safe words are to be alloted for my use. Please I am very real about this and if there are any female sadists dommes in the Virginia, DC, or Maryland area that would just love to perform this elaborate torture session onto my helpless body then please get in touch with me! I'm a complete willing male participant looking for that one female sadist living nearby who loves the idea of my mock execution theme.

So you want a session where it's an endless smorgasbord of pain and suffering, followed by an untimely and painful death with no safe words in the mix?

Have you considered marriage?

LOLOLOL....Now that was funny! Very sadistic too!! ;)

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 7/3/2017 8:51:40 PM

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So you want a session where it's an endless smorgasbord of pain and suffering, followed by an untimely and painful death with no safe words in the mix?

Have you considered marriage?

Or joining the Marines?

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RE: Need help fulfilling a fantasy - 7/12/2017 4:00:20 PM

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This is why PRO Dommes exist. Find a credible one and hire her. This is what most of them get paid to do.

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