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RE: Being used - 6/25/2017 7:39:08 PM

DesFIP

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Opie is 37. Makes the gf in her young twenties and the kids preschool.

I sincerely doubt that a toddler is posting things to YouTube or doing any of the other things you claim.

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RE: Being used - 6/25/2017 10:34:33 PM

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This sounds like a not-too-well crafted wank fantasy.

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RE: Being used - 6/26/2017 9:34:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Opie is 37. Makes the gf in her young twenties and the kids preschool.

I sincerely doubt that a toddler is posting things to YouTube or doing any of the other things you claim.

Exactly. He didn't give much thought to the ages in his elaborate fantasy.

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RE: Being used - 6/26/2017 5:32:30 PM

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Hi to all Mistresses and i thank you in advance for your help.
My question is about my relationship which is basically me being used for money and Dommed by my gf. It started out great but i soon realised that she wasnt joking about her motto "every things ok if you know im always right".

This has turned out to be the way she runs her relationships and we have had a lot of trouble in the past which has always led to me being dumped and eventually crawling back to her to appologise and basically beg for forgiveness even tho the fights start with me just trying to let her know that she has hurt me in some way....this usually meant me being called a sook and told i have mental problems.

It has been 4 years now, last xmas i spent $000s on her and kids and im madly in love with her, she is amazing, 12yrs younger than me and stunningly beautiful. Im pretty sure by this time she knows she has full control over me and has got to a point where she can basically treat me however she likes, which is sometimes really horrible :(

She and her 2 daughters have at times treated me like crap and her daughters regularly refer to me as "mr nobody" and have threatened me...."get outta my way or ill punch you in the face" etc. snatch things from me, even my own things....threaten to film me when upset and post on youtube etc....

Im really not sure what to do because im so in love with her and care so much for her and here kids even tho they treat me so badly. I couldnt imagine life without her.

(Hmmmmm).

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RE: Being used - 6/27/2017 11:26:38 PM

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As much as I hate being a contrarian*, I can help with the "why does he love her?" question. He is hopelessly devoted to this woman and takes her abuse because she exists only in his mind.

*JK I love it

Ah no, i couldnt possible get this emotional while fantacising over an imaginary friend! she is my gf, i have pics of us together but figure its not real nice to post these without her knowing.

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RE: Being used - 6/27/2017 11:31:47 PM

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Ok......sorry MissKatya......i think i may have my age wrong on here lol

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RE: Being used - 6/27/2017 11:36:32 PM

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and why am i just a wank fantacy??

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RE: Being used - 6/28/2017 1:21:01 AM

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and why am i just a wank fantacy??

because you allow it.

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RE: Being used - 6/28/2017 12:44:43 PM

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Assuming the OP is real - just because you love someone doesn't mean that you have to stay with them. If the person is bad for you, you would be better off leaving them if your relationship is so toxic.

and you might try reading some self help books on setting boundaries. You need it.

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RE: Being used - 6/28/2017 12:51:03 PM

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What kiwi said.
Love is not enough. It doesn't create compatibility. It doesn't teach fair fighting, active listening, healthy boundaries. It doesn't magically make you capable of picking healthy partners or give you the communication skills like I sentences.

Oh, and anyone who raises children to humiliate others as part of their kink is not a good person.
It's totally a wrong thing to do to children. They're not capable of giving informed consent. Someone who does this should have CPS called on them.

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RE: Being used - 6/29/2017 1:13:26 AM

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Well i wouldnt say she raises children to play any certain role with her sub, its just how she is and i guess her daughters have her as a role model and pick up her personality.....which i must say is amazing! shes a very confident, cheeky, out going and flirty person....a very attractive personality half of the time who is lots of fun to be around! this is why i love her. Its just that the other times shes.......well like i said

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RE: Being used - 12/14/2022 4:53:20 PM

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So, you're still on the site and your profile says that you're looking for a dominant woman to humiliate you. You also have not yet edited your profile you state your accurate age (and, according to CollarMe Support, that's the one edit that doesn't cause long profile processing delays).

So, what happened? Are you still with her? Are you in an open relationship? Or did you just never edit your profile?

Did you seek therapy for your tendency to accept abuse in return for love? Did she seek therapy for her abusive behaviors?

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