Greta75
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ORIGINAL: penny1993 he was saying things like he might not be available im like ok.... Interpretation is if you don't get rid of the baby now, he ain't gonna wait for you to pop it out. quote:
but then hed say things like hes waited so long to find me and that im perfect and that really 6 months means a year im just thinkin like if im so great is that horrible to wait and get to know me anyways? You are 100% right. If he genuinely likes you that much and cares about you, 6 months is nothing. He will be patient and want best for you. Right what he wants is what's best for him. Which is you available to his needs immediately. Look there is nothing wrong with this, some dominants chooses to use emotional blackmail like this to make people do what they want them to do. But you need to ask yourself, is this the type of dominant style you want to be with? It's all 100% him and nothing about you. quote:
idk maybe im wrong...maybe that is long idk i felt pressured to have a abortion and hed say can i see why he is annoyed with the suitation im like ya..,but i am to bec its happening to me.... Actually, did he meet you before you got pregnant? And somehow you got pregnant with someone else, but not him? A bit confuse about the pregnancy. quote:
but if it happens to much i may grow weary." so like um im confused? In another words, he is saying, no you can't always go to him and ask him whatever question you want. He is open to you to a certain limit only. So you are only permitted to do so at the limits he set. Anyway, I feel the nature of D/S relationship is very subjective and very kink dependent. If what rocks your world is just obeying and pleasing someone. Then all his demands wouldn't be any problems at all. But personally, I feel this man is a red flag, just because he wants you to abort now so he can have physical access to you or something? That's not a good character and I would red flag that attitude.
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