EStrict
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Joined: 1/11/2004 Status: offline
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Here's an interesting thought... someone spends 4 hours a day, 5 days a week in a chat room. They sleep 8 hours, work 8 hours, and do daily maintaince (showers, eating, bathroom, etc)... when do they have the time to be *real*? Personally, I rarely frequent chatrooms. To many snerts hanging around that IM people in the room without being in the room. To many that say how they are *real* then say how they do something that would basically kill another on a regular basis. If you have time to go to a chatroom to *learn* that often, you have time to find and attend a local munch. Too scared? So go to the first one (after all.. MOST are in very public places), and watch from a distance without participating. Hiding behind a computer screen to *learn* is still hiding. You want to learn about RL BDSM, go out and do it. Any one who calls themselves dominant that fears a munch doesn't have enough self confidence to control IMO. And a submissive that fears checking things out doesn't have enough sense of worth to be able to really have much to offer. Yeah I know, I'm harsh. That's just part of my charm :)
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Sandy Don't take life too seriously, no one gets out alive anyway...
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