itsSIRtou
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ORIGINAL: markyugen Don't call yourself a Master until you've actually mastered something. Whether it be rope, whips, obedience training, or whatever, put real blood, sweat and tears into learning a kinky craft that people can appreciate, respect, and above all trust. Work equally hard on personality: compassion, awareness (including self), humor, dignity, confidence, strength. Learn to block out easily invited negative emotions such as anger, bitterness, coldness, and self-pity. In a nutshell, be a good self-reliant person with mad kink skillz and you will earn your Master's badge in no time. all the above to which I will add a favorite quote.... "Knowing others is intelligence; knowing Yourself is true wisdom...Mastering others is strength, Mastering Yourself is true power." Being a TRUE Dominant is not something that u do. Being a TRUE Dominant Master IS something that YOU ARE. No half-stepping* about it. and You better have that deeply settled in Your head well before You put that "something you are" into controlling anyone else. because controlling someone is a responsibility first and foremost. If You have even a tiddly bit of wavering in that thought process, ....DONT. To that sub, YOU are the Leader,....BE that Leader. And be REAL to Yourself about it. ( * if somebody calls you "arrogant" for not being a "half-stepper" - you're on the right track.)
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I will allways be a knight, instead of a prince. What would the internet be like if we couldn't say trump is a moron? The Republican party complains government doesnt work for people, and then makes darn sure it cannot.
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