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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 10:39:57 AM   
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Nice to see ya back darlin!

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 10:42:02 AM   
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Thanks, babe. It's actually a hit n run thing. I've about two years work to finish before winter... And winter is coming :(

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 10:55:09 AM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: heartlessevil


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

The submissive that submits to you.

Other than that, you can be a legend in your own mind thinking you're Oz the great and terrible panty dropper, but not all (very few in fact) submissives are going to be all jazzed up over your dynamic and how you helm your life/style.

Sooooo... Until you have in your possession a submissive that is all in, you're a Dominant, master of none.

Jus sayin


Guess who makes the submissive be 'all in'... hint... it's not her.



So, you're just so eager to serve you'd show up, grease up the foremast, cram it up your own ass for our little circumnavigation trip, right?

Hint, you're completely wrong. The submissive, he or she, signs up for the dynamic. When they're shanghaied into a dynamic we hear about it in another section of this forum.

Unless the idea of sailing the seven seas with the foremast of the ship rammed up your ass is your idea of a good time, I sincerely doubt that you will be ALL IN, and no matter how I sugar coat it, it's still a ships mast up your ass.

Jus sayin



You evidently have no understanding of what this lifestyle is about.






She has to initially sign up for the dynamic but if the Master can't really 'Master' her and make it work... she'll be movin' on.

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 11:05:42 AM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: heartlessevil


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

The submissive that submits to you.

Other than that, you can be a legend in your own mind thinking you're Oz the great and terrible panty dropper, but not all (very few in fact) submissives are going to be all jazzed up over your dynamic and how you helm your life/style.

Sooooo... Until you have in your possession a submissive that is all in, you're a Dominant, master of none.

Jus sayin


Guess who makes the submissive be 'all in'... hint... it's not her.



So, you're just so eager to serve you'd show up, grease up the foremast, cram it up your own ass for our little circumnavigation trip, right?

Hint, you're completely wrong. The submissive, he or she, signs up for the dynamic. When they're shanghaied into a dynamic we hear about it in another section of this forum.

Unless the idea of sailing the seven seas with the foremast of the ship rammed up your ass is your idea of a good time, I sincerely doubt that you will be ALL IN, and no matter how I sugar coat it, it's still a ships mast up your ass.

Jus sayin



You evidently have no understanding of what this lifestyle is about.






She has to initially sign up for the dynamic but if the Master can't really 'Master' her and make it work... she'll be movin' on.



Glad to see you got yerself an epiphany ;)

Now, more to point, once you've signed up for a dynamic is S/he immediately "Master" or do you wait to bestow such honorifics until you've actually been mastered?

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 12:10:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: markyugen

Don't call yourself a Master until you've actually mastered something. Whether it be rope, whips, obedience training, or whatever, put real blood, sweat and tears into learning a kinky craft that people can appreciate, respect, and above all trust. Work equally hard on personality: compassion, awareness (including self), humor, dignity, confidence, strength. Learn to block out easily invited negative emotions such as anger, bitterness, coldness, and self-pity.
In a nutshell, be a good self-reliant person with mad kink skillz and you will earn your Master's badge in no time.



all the above to which I will add a favorite quote....

"Knowing others is intelligence; knowing Yourself is true wisdom...Mastering others is strength, Mastering Yourself is true power."

Being a TRUE Dominant is not something that u do. Being a TRUE Dominant Master IS something that YOU ARE. No half-stepping* about it.

and You better have that deeply settled in Your head well before You put that "something you are" into controlling anyone else.

because controlling someone is a responsibility first and foremost. If You have even a tiddly bit of wavering in that thought process, ....DONT.

To that sub, YOU are the Leader,....BE that Leader. And be REAL to Yourself about it.



( * if somebody calls you "arrogant" for not being a "half-stepper" - you're on the right track.)



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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 12:10:23 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: tamaka

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: tamaka


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ORIGINAL: heartlessevil


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

The submissive that submits to you.

Other than that, you can be a legend in your own mind thinking you're Oz the great and terrible panty dropper, but not all (very few in fact) submissives are going to be all jazzed up over your dynamic and how you helm your life/style.

Sooooo... Until you have in your possession a submissive that is all in, you're a Dominant, master of none.

Jus sayin


Guess who makes the submissive be 'all in'... hint... it's not her.



So, you're just so eager to serve you'd show up, grease up the foremast, cram it up your own ass for our little circumnavigation trip, right?

Hint, you're completely wrong. The submissive, he or she, signs up for the dynamic. When they're shanghaied into a dynamic we hear about it in another section of this forum.

Unless the idea of sailing the seven seas with the foremast of the ship rammed up your ass is your idea of a good time, I sincerely doubt that you will be ALL IN, and no matter how I sugar coat it, it's still a ships mast up your ass.

Jus sayin



You evidently have no understanding of what this lifestyle is about.






She has to initially sign up for the dynamic but if the Master can't really 'Master' her and make it work... she'll be movin' on.



Glad to see you got yerself an epiphany ;)

Now, more to point, once you've signed up for a dynamic is S/he immediately "Master" or do you wait to bestow such honorifics until you've actually been mastered?


Well in my case, i always called Him Sir or Master and He always referred to Himself as Master, and slowly over time, i realized that He really was. ... Thank God. :)

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 12:16:34 PM   
Lucylastic


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Thanks, babe. It's actually a hit n run thing. I've about two years work to finish before winter... And winter is coming :(

snice to see you anyway:) Winter IS coming:) And I know the feeling, Im so far behind I might disappear into my own bum

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 12:42:21 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic


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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Thanks, babe. It's actually a hit n run thing. I've about two years work to finish before winter... And winter is coming :(

snice to see you anyway:) Winter IS coming:) And I know the feeling, Im so far behind I might disappear into my own bum


So there's hope then.

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 2:07:45 PM   
Lucylastic


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No hope for you, ever.

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 2:58:15 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic

No hope for you, ever.


I see. You are my curse then.... lol

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/20/2017 3:11:16 PM   
Lucylastic


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If you let me be...then its down to you.


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RE: What makes a Good Master - 9/24/2017 3:26:33 PM   
SMJ53


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EXPERIENCE !!

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 10/19/2017 7:27:47 PM   
LTE


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FR I sense some real negativity here.

One must master themselves.

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 10/19/2017 9:12:58 PM   
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Sooooo... Until you have in your possession a submissive that is all in, you're a Dominant, master of none.

Pffft

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 10/19/2017 9:32:23 PM   
tamaka


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ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick

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Sooooo... Until you have in your possession a submissive that is all in, you're a Dominant, master of none.

Pffft


Dizzy... how would you know anything to make any kind of comment? You aren't in an M/s relationship and you know nothing about them.

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RE: What makes a Good Master - 10/21/2017 1:45:24 PM   
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My favorite Troll-y Tyrant! TACKLEPOUNCES SMEWCHES... Missed you!

And of course, goes without just sayin I agreeseded witchu!!


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RE: What makes a Good Master - 10/24/2017 11:26:57 PM   
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Pfffft!

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