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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/24/2017 2:36:02 PM

kiwisub22

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Ummm ..... she didn't say that was what you wanted - she said "if someone....".

and don't know of any men who charge women to be dominated. I think there may be a couple, but as I said, I don't know of them. I don't think there is anything intrinsically wrong with the idea, if there is a demand. It probably makes it easier for a certain section of men to get their needs met without the effort and drama involved in finding a play partner that shares kinks, likes you enough to get involved and is willing to get together on a regular basis. Its only a problem for those men who either can't afford the service, or think they should be able to get the service for free because .... they have a penis? they are such sparkling individuals? they are special people who should get everything they want when they want it as they want it????? I don't know.
Some times I think if the people who complain about findoms put as much effort into their personal relationships as they do their complaining, they would be far better off.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/24/2017 3:56:17 PM

submgreenbay

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Fair enough. I guess I just get irritated when people try and justify what I referred to as the "scam and sucker" scenario. So it's not a scam, but I still don't think its morally right for either party to engage in. I believe in the classic dominant, not this contemporary style. Now a days just about anyone can claim to be a dominant. Jump right in, act like a bitch, expect the sub to degrade themselves right off the get go and don't even talk to them without a tribute, is a load of shit. But, if somehow its drawing business (back to that supply and demand thing), then that speaks volumes to the quality of people involved. Some people don't know it any other way, because they never did anything other than model themselves (giving or receiving) after what they saw someone else online doing. Sad. Shallow people who can't think for themselves... sad Thinking about it, I'd rather call them something other than Domme's. Fetish suppliers maybe.

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RE: A Question About Supply And Demand - 8/26/2017 9:16:37 AM

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks

Everyone know that there are 1,000 more male sub/slaves than there are Dommes.
So Domme's can charge astronomical prices.

However, when you talk to Domme's you begin to hear the same things:
** There are so many flaky men
** I can schedule 10 men and 1 may show up, if I'm lucky
** There are so many game players
** I'm not going to a guy's house - he might murder me.

So the idea is to require a Paypal deposit first to meet. The trouble is that most men won't do that. Plus, there are bold red letters saying not to send money to anyone.

To find a male submissive, who is willing to make a Paypal deposit, who won't murder or harm you, and have him as a regular is rare.
All of the sudden there are 1,000 more "Domme" than there are male submissives.

So why doesn't Supply & Demand work in that case?