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ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/30/2017 2:57:00 PM)
Well then, you could always just do what I do, and simply hang out in the real world with people you meet in the real world, but I was trying to accommodate the derps who do the whole internet dating thing. At any rate, I don't happen to give a fuck about this glitch, and the people who do worry about it, well they have only themselves to blame for giving out whatever info they gave out to somebody stupid enough to store that info that way.

Greta75 -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/30/2017 9:26:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Well then, you could always just do what I do, and simply hang out in the real world with people you meet in the real world, but I was trying to accommodate the derps who do the whole internet dating thing. At any rate, I don't happen to give a fuck about this glitch, and the people who do worry about it, well they have only themselves to blame for giving out whatever info they gave out to somebody stupid enough to store that info that way. Well, we don't really have a "scene" or a "munch" around here, so pretty hard to meet BDSM folks in the real world without using an online platform.

tamaka -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/30/2017 9:34:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Well then, you could always just do what I do, and simply hang out in the real world with people you meet in the real world, but I was trying to accommodate the derps who do the whole internet dating thing. At any rate, I don't happen to give a fuck about this glitch, and the people who do worry about it, well they have only themselves to blame for giving out whatever info they gave out to somebody stupid enough to store that info that way. Well, we don't really have a "scene" or a "munch" around here, so pretty hard to meet BDSM folks in the real world without using an online platform. Such a thing would probably be illegal in Singapore probably.

OsideGirl -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/30/2017 11:40:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Well then, you could always just do what I do, and simply hang out in the real world with people you meet in the real world, but I was trying to accommodate the derps who do the whole internet dating thing. At any rate, I don't happen to give a fuck about this glitch, and the people who do worry about it, well they have only themselves to blame for giving out whatever info they gave out to somebody stupid enough to store that info that way. Well, we don't really have a "scene" or a "munch" around here, so pretty hard to meet BDSM folks in the real world without using an online platform. Such a thing would probably be illegal in Singapore probably. Technically, it's illegal in the US. According to the law you cannot consent to assault. Therefore BDSM is technically illegal and hosting a gathering to further assault is illegal. Law enforcement here frequently looks the other way, it's still technically illegal.

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 12:57:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick How about not give your phone number or email to people on this site. I may be wrong but that seems like a pretty fucking effective counter measure to me. BINGO!!! And that folks is precisely why I don't give out my phone number! That's a nasty bug for sure. I hope they get that fixed!

MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 1:15:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 Usually, my standard procedure is, move on to email communication. And then exchange numbers for real life meetings. And then, potentially, this person who does come on CS, starts becoming a regular real life friend you do hang out with. There is nothing wrong with him. Except, maybe, he just has a bad habit of storing people's phone number and emails inside CS, on the notes section. And I would never know about it. Very true. Although, it's not really a "bad habit", because the notes section states "Notes visible only to you", therefore most people using a site would initially trust that what they write there is secure and private. Nowadays with so much data being breached it is certainly beneficial to be paranoid. An alternative to Notes is to use a program like Excel (or one of the free program apps that are equivalent) where you can make name lists and summarize fetishes, contact info, conversation notes, etc., especially when talking to many people as some of us do.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 4:45:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Well then, you could always just do what I do, and simply hang out in the real world with people you meet in the real world, but I was trying to accommodate the derps who do the whole internet dating thing. At any rate, I don't happen to give a fuck about this glitch, and the people who do worry about it, well they have only themselves to blame for giving out whatever info they gave out to somebody stupid enough to store that info that way. Well, we don't really have a "scene" or a "munch" around here, so pretty hard to meet BDSM folks in the real world without using an online platform. I stopped having anything to do with the "scene" nearly 20 years ago, and I have never had any difficulty. And oddly enough, people managed it just fine for thousands of years before the Internet existed, so I call bullshit.

Greta75 -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 4:51:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Such a thing would probably be illegal in Singapore probably. I think it's more about, who wants to stick their neck out and hold a munch? It starts with announcing to the world, you're into BDSM. I don't think it's illegal as long as it is held privately. Someone could host in their home. BDSM Club might have alot of laws to deal with. I mean, can you imagine bar top dancing is illegal. I can't even imagine what hoops one gotta jump through just to get a BDSM Club approved.

Greta75 -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 4:53:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick I stopped having anything to do with the "scene" nearly 20 years ago, and I have never had any difficulty. And oddly enough, people managed it just fine for thousands of years before the Internet existed, so I call bullshit. So how do you meet BDSM people from the vanilla company you keep? Do explain? All my vanilla friends are even offended by sex before marriage. And any man who wants to have sex with you before marriage is a pervert and a bad man! I actually don't think BDSM was big thousands of years ago btw. Women probably don't even have rights to choose her own husband back then to even go find a BDSM dude to play with. And any woman having "sex for pleasure" without the benefit of a marriage, will be automatically be seen as a whore. There is no way there was any BDSM thousands years ago, except by pure luck, if you happen to be married to a man who likes it.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 5:09:41 AM)
quote: So how do you meet BDSM people from the vanilla company you keep? Do explain? Easy, you go out and meet people, and when you feel like fucking one, you bring up the BDSM topic. And amazingly enough, it is more common than you apparently think. Also I don't hang around as many religious fuckwits as you apparently do. quote: There is no way there was any BDSM thousands years ago LMAO!!! https://feeld.co/blog/the-history-of-bdsm-from-ancient-times-to-the-21st-century http://observationdeck.kinja.com/bdsm-culture-through-history-and-to-the-present-maybe-1685471371 http://sluttygirlproblems.com/guide/tale-old-time-bdsm-throughout-history/#.Waf77bKGPcs Gosh, looks like you, once again, have no fucking clue.

Greta75 -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 5:24:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Easy, you go out and meet people, and when you feel like fucking one, you bring up the BDSM topic. And amazingly enough, it is more common than you apparently think. Also I don't hang around as many religious fuckwits as you apparently do. I've been fucking one new man a week for the past 7 years and 99.9% of them refuse to play any BDSM with me. As they are vanilla and not into it. Even basic spanking, they do once and hated it. So how do you meet these doms? In 7 years. I only met one man who coincidentally into BDSM from vanilla fucks and it took him 7 months of repeatedly fucking me to open up to me he is into BDSM too. When I told him from Day 1 I fucked him.

Greta75 -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 5:32:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick LMAO!!! https://feeld.co/blog/the-history-of-bdsm-from-ancient-times-to-the-21st-century http://observationdeck.kinja.com/bdsm-culture-through-history-and-to-the-present-maybe-1685471371 http://sluttygirlproblems.com/guide/tale-old-time-bdsm-throughout-history/#.Waf77bKGPcs Gosh, looks like you, once again, have no fucking clue. What you posted still doesn't disprove anything I said about exceptions.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 1:47:38 PM)
quote: What you posted still doesn't disprove anything I said about exceptions. You didn't say a damn thing about "exceptions", so fuck off

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 1:55:50 PM)
quote: So how do you meet these doms? I told you, by meeting people. i have met them here and there. In bars (my current BF and my ex-husband), in clubs (2 guys who never worked out beyond a kinky booty call), in stores (1 guy i met at a hardware store talking about the uses of visegrip pliers, another guy I met talking about the best type of apple for making a pie), at professional type meetings (where my BF met our most recent ex-bf), and even on the subway (my current GF)

tamaka -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 2:15:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Easy, you go out and meet people, and when you feel like fucking one, you bring up the BDSM topic. And amazingly enough, it is more common than you apparently think. Also I don't hang around as many religious fuckwits as you apparently do. I've been fucking one new man a week for the past 7 years and 99.9% of them refuse to play any BDSM with me. As they are vanilla and not into it. Even basic spanking, they do once and hated it. So how do you meet these doms? In 7 years. I only met one man who coincidentally into BDSM from vanilla fucks and it took him 7 months of repeatedly fucking me to open up to me he is into BDSM too. When I told him from Day 1 I fucked him. Try. www.bdsmsingapore.net

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Seeing other peoples notes (8/31/2017 2:19:22 PM)
smirk.

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