Meh..... squirting is a physiological reaction to orgasm. So if someone can "make" you squirt - yay. If you don't, then you have orgasmed.
My dom could make me squirt but only in certain positions. It didn't make him Lord High Master Uber All Squirty King - it meant that in a certain position I would squirt.
As for men thinking it makes them MORE..... then they are certainly special little snowflakes, of the hot kind. Its fun, and messy, and ultimately doesn't amount to a hill of beans.
But maybe, for online fun, it sounds like an extra qualification - like being a dominant, card-carrying master.