Greta75
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP And we all know that if you stalk someone, they'll magically fall in love with you. In this context, you have a guy blatantly showing you with his actions that being with him would mean endless abuse, where he has disregard for your life and will cause you alot of pain. Whereas she is basically like, she don't care, she loves it. He actually cares for her by instead of happily using her, he tried to push her away by showing her how bad he could be. But she just in the end went out to prove they are a perfect match as she is as psycho as him. She demonstrated it in the deleted scene by just killing an innocent bystander for yelling at joker by her own accord that even joker called her crazy for doing that. This is the movie version though. Where it shows more of Joker love for her. In the cartoons. Joker was a serious jerk big time. Like she couldn't thaw him at all. But in this movie, you could see Joker thawing. The thing is, in BDSM, there are many women that do crave extreme experiences. Except in a sane, rational, consensual way. If you think of the movie secretary, which depicts another BDSM couple who live happily ever after. That dude could be considered abusive to his secretary with a vanilla woman. And he was also taking a huge risk by doing whatever he did, taking a chance on this new secretary. She could have reported him to the police for all his outrageous requests. It would be like physical abuse and sexual harassment if she didn't enjoy it. Sometimes I think when both men and women who stay in abusive relationships where they are neither financially beholden to each other, or have kids together. Could walk away anytime. And then you got these counselors trying to save them and convince them to leave. I personally reckon they are into BDSM, but don't realise it yet. Once they reach that self-realization, they can stop feeling guilty for staying, they stay because they enjoy the dynamic. We had reports of these situations and the puzzling of why they won't leave. You got a woman earning 300k per annum, is the breadwinner. Her boyfriend earns 1/5 of what she makes. Yet she allows herself to be bruised and knock around by her boyfriend and refuse to leave. No kids. Why? One gotta ask.
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