From: Silicon Valley, CA
I found a new BDSM social dating site called Kinkaholic https://www.kinkaholic.com
It is a very nice looking full featured site that looks like both Collarspace and FetLife rolled into one. It is currently in Beta and growing and changing every day. The site is currently 100% free so check it out.
Full disclosure: I have nothing to do with Kinkaholic other than joining as a member and get no benefits by posting this. I would just like to see the site grow.