I've play with subs that wanted only to be beaten and nothing more because they enjoy pain. That's not sexual.
My subs enjoy doing chores like gardening, carpentry, painting, and laboring as farm slaves, and they all wear chastity cages whenever they are with me. That's DEFINITELY not sexual.
Stop watching porn, interact with real people instead.
Offer to put me in an inflatable latex mummification bag, and torment me all day long, no sex just torment, sign me up :)
Master of the Mystic Arts
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