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Cstepford -> safety (10/18/2017 12:03:19 PM)
i am planning on going in real life to a Domme i have been corresponding with online--living with her in a FLR. I am concerned about safety. How can I know I am chatting with a female since i can only text with her--no phone calls? How can I know she will really provide for my safety if i give her total control over me? Thank you.

stef -> RE: safety (10/18/2017 12:33:27 PM)
You're planning on living with someone you've only interacted with online?

Cstepford -> RE: safety (10/18/2017 12:36:44 PM)
that is the plan, but we would have a face to face meet first to see if we both like what we see.

OsideGirl -> RE: safety (10/18/2017 2:53:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cstepford that is the plan, but we would have a face to face meet first to see if we both like what we see. So, let me get this straight... You have no idea if this person is even female. You have no idea who they are as a person. You have no idea about their past. Yet, you're willing to uproot your life and go live with this person. Ask yourself if this is sane behavior.

stef -> RE: safety (10/18/2017 5:25:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl So, let me get this straight... You have no idea if this person is even female. You have no idea who they are as a person. You have no idea about their past. Yet, you're willing to uproot your life and go live with this person. Ask yourself if this is sane behavior. And use the big head when doing the asking.

ShiftyGears -> RE: safety (10/30/2017 9:20:22 PM)
Do not commit to anything until you have spoken over the phone or used video calling. Has she asked you for iTunes cards? I would say that it is a huge red flag if you two are already discussing moving in together but she will not communicate with voice calls or face time. Have you asked for voice conversation or tried to call? Even if you do end up hearing her voice there are a number of programs for calling someone and changing your voice to male or female). red flag for scam may go like, you set up a face-to-face meet and then something happens to her at the last minute and she needs you to send her money to fix it before she can see you. Theres also people out there who aren't scamming but they have no intentions of any real relationship or meet, they are just bored with their lives and escape that with online romances.

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