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pdockal -> help needed (10/26/2017 5:55:49 AM)
my wife has cancer, she is going in for surgery & probably chemo (just started the process) and im looking for a female to enter our household 24/7 to help in her recovery ... you will serve her every need (and mine also) ... any advice where to look / find the right female to fit into out crazy life would be grately appreciated

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 8:39:18 AM)
Good luck, you're gonna need it.

stef -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 9:44:28 AM)
So you're looking for a free oncology nurse and a convenient hole to screw when your wife is too sick from the chemo to put out? Good luck with that, Sport.

OsideGirl -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 9:47:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pdockal my wife has cancer, she is going in for surgery & probably chemo (just started the process) and im looking for a female to enter our household 24/7 to help in her recovery ... you will serve her every need (and mine also) ... any advice where to look / find the right female to fit into out crazy life would be grately appreciated So, you want a free nurse and a free fuck.

DesFIP -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 10:57:18 AM)
The perfect way to be supportive. Make it clear that you care more about your dick than being there for her. I hope she comes through with flying colors and divorces you.

tamaka -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 11:29:43 AM)
Maybe because anyone who would want to do something like this for free would at least want to be used sexually.

peppermint -> RE: help needed (10/26/2017 9:52:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pdockal any advice where to look / find the right female to fit into out crazy life would be grately appreciated Someone who is homeless might be persuaded to come live with you for a time. Best to not expect too much from them. Neighbor of mine offers room and board in exchange for 2-3 hours of work taking care of her farm animals. Even with winter coming you'd be surprised at how many people can't wake up before noon to make sure the critters get let out and have food and water. Then she gets accused of being a slave driver because she wants the goats milked at the same time (I believe 11 am is a reasonable time) every day. I think you expect a full time housekeeper, chef, health care worker, and sex worker combined in one. I just got done taking care of an ill person. You couldn't pay me enough to do what I was doing. AND you want sexual service on top of it all. So sorry to hear about your wife. I do hope she beats the cancer. I do hope you can find it in your heart to care for her and love her even when she can't do the things for you she has done in the past. You'll be expected to step up and do what needs to be done. You can't count on finding someone to do all that for you for free.

DarkSteven -> RE: help needed (10/27/2017 12:31:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pdockal my wife has cancer, she is going in for surgery & probably chemo (just started the process) and im looking for a female to enter our household 24/7 to help in her recovery ... you will serve her every need (and mine also) ... any advice where to look / find the right female to fit into out crazy life would be grately appreciated Look within yourself for the answer.

OsideGirl -> RE: help needed (10/27/2017 9:53:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Maybe because anyone who would want to do something like this for free would at least want to be used sexually. By a male submissive?

tamaka -> RE: help needed (10/27/2017 10:25:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Maybe because anyone who would want to do something like this for free would at least want to be used sexually. By a male submissive? Well he says ... serve his needs also... so maybe he's really a switch?

OsideGirl -> RE: help needed (10/27/2017 11:43:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Maybe because anyone who would want to do something like this for free would at least want to be used sexually. By a male submissive? Well he says ... serve his needs also... so maybe he's really a switch? You're assuming "serve his needs' is dominant/top - his needs to could be that he wants someone to top him and his wife is the dominant.

tamaka -> RE: help needed (10/27/2017 12:58:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: tamaka Maybe because anyone who would want to do something like this for free would at least want to be used sexually. By a male submissive? Well he says ... serve his needs also... so maybe he's really a switch? You're assuming "serve his needs' is dominant/top - his needs to could be that he wants someone to top him and his wife is the dominant. Oh... well then he needs to find a switch i guess.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: help needed (10/28/2017 4:37:02 PM)
Yeah, like that'll drop into your lap. Fork over the dough bub, pay for a real nurse who'll attend your wife's needs. Set aside yours, needs that is, in case I need to spell it out. Make yourself useful, look after the house, etc. You're a sub after all, right? [8\|] Help the woman you married, hopefully love, with emotional support she'll want & need. Bejeebus, does this REALLY need to be spelled out?? FFS SMH & FML

ShiftyGears -> RE: help needed (10/28/2017 5:22:10 PM)
My "slow" elderly neighbor has one of these. Shes a tweaker though, they're both tweakers. mooching off him because she cannot get her own place due to refusing to work and a long criminal record. he doesn't pay her, she just lives with him (the state may be paying her). Mentally unstable and the cops are being called on a regular. Shes been caring for him for almost 2 years already though. He met her at the laundrymat. she even has some kind of legitimate documentation from the state to be his home care aid. I don't think they have a sexual relationship though.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: help needed (11/2/2017 10:52:11 PM)
In ON, Canada that is, we have PSWs. They're certified support workers hired mostly by agencies that are heavily regulated. Mostly women they're angels of mercy for families or residences with people that need more care than a home can provide.

thishereboi -> RE: help needed (11/15/2017 3:56:06 AM)
Sure, next time you are at the docs, ask them about hiring a nurse.

Greta75 -> RE: help needed (11/22/2017 8:41:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pdockal my wife has cancer, she is going in for surgery & probably chemo (just started the process) and im looking for a female to enter our household 24/7 to help in her recovery ... you will serve her every need (and mine also) ... any advice where to look / find the right female to fit into out crazy life would be grately appreciated I am so filled with disgust with this post. In our country. When spouses are sick and we can't cope. We pay a nurse or a domestic helper to come in and help us full time. Give them a proper job and pay them properly for the job professionally. If we can't afford a nurse or a domestic help. WE have to take care of our spouse by OURSELVES and figure a way to do so. We don't ask for some strange woman to come in for free and take care of our spouse for us. It's seriously disgusting and low life. And also expect her to basically be your whore and be your wife's nurse maid. It's absolutely disgusting. Like are you even a man? Even when the Prime Minister of my country, when his wife got stroke and bedridden. He insist on personally assisting her on feeding her, changing her clothes, washing her, and helping her to the bathroom and insist on personally being her nurse. He said, she has always been there for him all his life. And this is an opportunity for him to be there for her and take care of her. I mean, you are disgusting as a husband.

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