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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/4/2005 3:38:21 PM

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I am new to all of this but I will tell you I was shocked the first time my Master used anal beads on me I was in heaven! So yes it is very stimulating! And as far as being tied down I get off even easier I think you just need to relax, i had that problem the first time I was tied up I was so involved with not moving I forgot all about getting off but once you relax it should come naturally (no pun intended)

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/4/2005 4:18:08 PM

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I would like to say it does none thing for me but that would not be all true. I think it hurts like hell at first have to go slow and steady. But once the muscles relax it actually feels pretty good. Its not something I do often maybe 3 times a year.

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/4/2005 8:09:59 PM

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i love anal sex . . . i sometimes wonder if i prefer it to everything else. It is a combination of elements - it's somewhat forbidden, very base and carnal, and puts me in a very submissive frame of mind.

i find it very stimulating sexually. One of my favorite rewards for good behavior is to be allowed to masturbate while Sire takes me anally. The orgasms are incredibly intense - unlike anything else i've experienced.

i can't cum from just the act itself, although i do feel small "pre-orgasm" type spasms during it. Being spank during anal sex causes my muscles to clench, which Sire tells me is very pleasurable for Him.

love it, love it, love it!

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/4/2005 8:57:13 PM

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The very first time i was fucked in the ass outside in public, oh my God -- we were walking hand in hand in a park at dusk, my first owner and i, we were both 21, our first summer in Paris, and he suddenly pulled me laughing into a little stand of trees and pushed me forward to lean against a tree trunk, it was dark and rough under my hands, leaves brushing my face -- he pulled my skirt up over my hips and my panties halfway down my thighs and then he kicked my feet apart and thrust his cock deep into my cunt in one stroke, another, another, i was so wet by then i was dripping -- and then without a word he pulled his wet cock out of my cunt and rode it hard right up my ass, i was still lubed from sex in our hotel room that afternoon but i was so stunned it nearly knocked the air out of my lungs, he was in my ass up to the hilt in one stroke again but slower this time, and then he fucked me till he came, holding me by my hips, making the tree shake, the leaves were rustling, both of us grunting, at least he was, i don't know what i was doing -- and all the time three little French girls were giggling at us on a park bench just far enough away we could all almost pretend we weren't in the same park together. When he was through cumming and finally pulled out i cleaned us up with my handkerchief, and then he walked me out of the trees and back through the park, both of us a little wobbly, and when we passed the little girls they weren't giggling anymore, just looking at us, silent and saucer-eyed, and i smiled sweetly at them and squeezed my owner's hand as tight as i could -- i was in hussy heaven for months after that, i thought i was the hottest little slut on heels, in Paris or anywhere, and the next time i pulled him into the trees myself, and the time after, and still sometimes when i get fucked outdoors i can still hear those little French girls giggling --

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/5/2005 11:10:03 AM

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There is a general school of thought, going back as far as de sade himself, which implies that the act of recieving anal penetration, for a man or woman, is a major form of submission. In part this has to do with that core of anal-retentiveness we all pick up as children, which tells us that things just shouldn't go in there; Also, the way the muscles are designed to tense up forces the person to relax and submit, or else experience a great deal of discomfort, thus the only way to enjoy the act of being penetrated is to submit, rather than merely endure.

i never thought i would find pleasure in receiving anal penetration until i met my current Master. i enjoy it for a variety of reasons.

1. as the quote above mentions, the make-up of the muscles requires relaxation and submission to avoid excessive pain. that very conundrum is heavenly. as a matter of fact, i explained this to my Master myself, and was very excited to see someone else make the same comment.
2. i know it is extremely arousing to my Master, as it is a different sensation. over time it has become something i crave for myself, and i used to HATE it.

Here are some thoughts to make it better:
1. Try and put some fantasies together for yourself where receiving anal penetration is pleasurable, make them as outrageous as you'd like, and think about them.
2. lube, lube, lube. 'nough said
3. Try wearing a small butt plug for some time prior to anal penetration, maybe even wear it around the house, and it will relax your sphincter muscles so that anal sex is comfortable. (once again, lube!)
4. Relax and breath deeply during insertion of a penis or device. If you feel yourself becoming uncontrollably tight, stop. Relax. Keep penis/device in partially until muscles relax. Try again.
5. After insertion, have your Master hold himself still inside you for a moment so your body adjusts.
6. Different positions: laying on your side with your legs bent is easiest to bear penetration when you're just starting. laying flat on your stomach with your legs together and his legs straddling you as he enters you both enables his penetration to stimulate your g-spot through your vaginal wall (if you're female) or your prostate (i <i>think</i>, from what i've read, if you're male), and it also makes you feel safer, which makes it easier to relax. other positions are good to try once you're used to the process and to having control over your anal relaxation. also, the more you do it, the more you relax and can enjoy!

Most men, even Masters, i would think, would like their subs/slaves to learn the pleasure of anal sex. The first time i propositioned my Master for anal sex on my own, i was shocked at how amazed and thrilled He was! And, i am forever grateful that he showed me the phenomenal beauty and erotic potential of this act.

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/5/2005 2:25:16 PM

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ravenna,

Thanks for sharing that wonderful sounding experience...we all have those time when something happens that takes our breath away in one way or another and when we think of it, we remember it quite fondly...thanks again, for sharing yours.

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/5/2005 4:19:59 PM

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and why lilone did you not invite the girls to enjoy what you just had?

The very first time i was fucked in the ass outside in public, oh my God -- we were walking hand in hand in a park at dusk, my first owner and i, we were both 21, our first summer in Paris, and he suddenly pulled me laughing into a little stand of trees and pushed me forward to lean against a tree trunk, it was dark and rough under my hands, leaves brushing my face -- he pulled my skirt up over my hips and my panties halfway down my thighs and then he kicked my feet apart and thrust his cock deep into my cunt in one stroke, another, another, i was so wet by then i was dripping -- and then without a word he pulled his wet cock out of my cunt and rode it hard right up my ass, i was still lubed from sex in our hotel room that afternoon but i was so stunned it nearly knocked the air out of my lungs, he was in my ass up to the hilt in one stroke again but slower this time, and then he fucked me till he came, holding me by my hips, making the tree shake, the leaves were rustling, both of us grunting, at least he was, i don't know what i was doing -- and all the time three little French girls were giggling at us on a park bench just far enough away we could all almost pretend we weren't in the same park together. When he was through cumming and finally pulled out i cleaned us up with my handkerchief, and then he walked me out of the trees and back through the park, both of us a little wobbly, and when we passed the little girls they weren't giggling anymore, just looking at us, silent and saucer-eyed, and i smiled sweetly at them and squeezed my owner's hand as tight as i could -- i was in hussy heaven for months after that, i thought i was the hottest little slut on heels, in Paris or anywhere, and the next time i pulled him into the trees myself, and the time after, and still sometimes when i get fucked outdoors i can still hear those little French girls giggling --

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/9/2005 9:13:15 PM

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Darling, remember little French girls grow up to be big French girls, and it's up to the big French boys to show them what those little French rosebuds are for... i'm sure those three little girls in the park all know very well by now!

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 1/10/2005 2:30:50 AM

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How BIG french boys?

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/1/2005 7:37:51 PM

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As a male sub, I crave it. The deeper and slower the better. If she can reach my prostate it sends me over the moon. My reward for submitting.....I have never allowed a man to take me back there, only a domme's strap-on. The Aneros tool I bought at Alt.com wasn't long enough to reach as advertised. It works much more like a simple butt plug.
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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/1/2005 11:00:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: knees2you

What does anal penetration do for You~
How does it make You feel
Do you do it out of respect for Your Domm, or Domme,
because they want You to? Or does it stimulate you sexually~
I know being tied down, You don't have a choice and cannot Cum even if you wanted to~

Sincerely, eyesofAslave

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It makes me moan in delight.
Never thot about how it makes me *feel*. It's sex.. it feels good.
I ask for it all the time, so I don't think I am doing it out of respect.
Yes, it's very sexually stimulating.

Tang

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/1/2005 11:13:44 PM

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It's funny, my experiences with anal seem to be different than many here.... my favorite thing is to have Master slowly work his finger(s) into me with no lube, than penetrate me with a tiny amount of lube. The difference with the small amount of lube is that it causes a delicious friction that i adore! (Of course this practice started after years of lube filled, lube-licious anal, probably not a good idea for first timers).

i do prefer vaginal to anal but anal does also stimulate my g-spot. Mmmmm....

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/2/2005 10:28:44 PM

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Darling phoenix52,

Friction!!! Oh, YES, i agree with you completely about that delicious friction! My owners are very careful about lubing my ass if that's the hole they're teeing off from, so to speak, but i love that moment after a lot of assfucking when my little love canal is approaching "viscosity breakdown" and his cock starts to catch and then release, catch and release... OOOH! And often they end up in my ass after quite a few laps in my cunt, so sometimes my only anal lubrication is lots of pussy juice and whatever is left of my normal daily lube. (i've been trained for years to do a daily enema-and-lube, sometimes twice if i'm having a busy night, so my ass is nearly always ready for use at the drop of a panty.) Oh, and the first guy's semen, that always helps a little too.

And now my anthropological observation of the evening: My unscientific impression, from my several extended stays in France, talking to French girls in my very broken French and their usually much better English, reading lots of French erotica, and watching lots and lots of French movies, dirty and otherwise, is that sexually active French girls are pretty much expected by French men to just take it right up the ass unlubricated, or with at most just a quick dip in the cunt or a palmful of spit to smooth the way... i've seen this happen in i don't know how many French movies, maybe it's partly a French movie fantasy thing, but i've also been told that, yes, many Frenchmen just take that for granted, French girls learn to expect it, and that statistically the French not only have the most sex of any people on earth, they also have the most anal sex. (Must have been a fun survey to find that out!) I have been used by one or two Frenchmen, but it was always in a well-lubricated scene directed by my owner, and i didn't get to make any complicated multicultural sociological inquiries at the moment...

So, can anyone confirm this impression of mine? If true, my awe at the sexual abilities of French women is even more boundless...

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/7/2005 12:52:00 AM

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I find it to be quite pleasurable. I've heard that the nerves in your clit fan-off sort of and can be accessed through your ass. So some girls can actually get a lot of pleasure out of it. It does take a bit of relaxation and a lot of lube, but it's great to feel so full! I think that you have to start out a bit slow, or use smaller toys to get yourself ready too. Also, I'm a bit of a clean freak, so I doubt I could enjoy it if I wasn't nice and clean for my Master. Enemas are a girl's best friend! Overall, I love it!

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/8/2005 11:36:00 AM

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What does anal penetration do for You~ turns me on

How does it make You feel ~ makes me feel naughty and sexy at the same time

Do you do it out of respect for Your Domm, or Domme
because they want You to? Or does it stimulate you sexually~ it stimulates me sexually and out of respect

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/10/2005 6:54:24 AM

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Don't know, never found a Domme that would let me do her

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/10/2005 4:40:06 PM

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oucheee stop
it hurts,
oh noo owieeee
,I hate it stop it hurts!!!
ouch..oh f**k
.ohhhh yes.
yessss...
...ohhhh dont stop

bout says it all for me

hehehe

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/10/2005 7:10:36 PM

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I would say that Ma'am penetrating me presents me with a mixture of feelings, both emotional and physical.

Physically, the experience is a mixture of fullness, when Ma'am is pressed into me all the way, and a vaguely uncomfortable feeling when she is pulling out. Pain has not yet been a factor, as Ma'am has not wanted it to be a painful experience. Ma'am knows my feelings about each sensation, and enjoys alternating the quick hard strokes that I find both comforting and very sexually satisfying, with long slow strokes that have me squirming in discomfort.

Emotionally, it is very much a sexual, bonding experience, a way for Ma'am to express her dominance and love at the same time, while allowing me to show my love and devotion to her.

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/26/2005 1:00:31 PM

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I love anal sex. I always have. Even when masturbating, I always have some sort of anal penetration. The sensation, the fullness... It's fabulous. I believe those that don't like it have not yet experienced it done correctly, with time and care taken.

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RE: What does Anal penetration do for You? - 2/26/2005 3:22:15 PM

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Love it, love it, love it, love it!!!! For me, anal produces incrediably intense orgasms and if there is vaginal and/or clitoral stimulation at the same time - holy cow, the stimulation is so good it's almost overwhelming rather like discovery why it's called le petit mort.

I have had relationships with men who thinkk of anal sex as a super submissive thing - it's not that for me, it's all about having sublime sex with orgams that feel like your're going to explode because it's so damn good. The position can make me feel more controlled and subjugated, but that's about feeling him in and over me or being bound.

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