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new Dom new Sub - 7/29/2006 10:09:33 AM

sweetnsoftinpa

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the Dominate i have been talking to is new to the lifestyle as well as i am but His father is a Master. He has told me that His father is very strick will He be as strick as His father or will He find His own path as His father is going to be His mentor

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/29/2006 10:23:25 AM

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Ok...what is the question? Have I missed it?

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/29/2006 11:43:32 AM

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the question is is He going to be as strick as His father

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/29/2006 12:33:36 PM

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The only person who knows is him. He could ask his father to mentor him or he could reject his father's values and be totally different. Talk to him about it.

BTW it is spelled strict, this may be why people are confused by your post.

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/29/2006 1:59:21 PM

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quote:

BTW it is spelled strict, this may be why people are confused by your post.

No, I don't think that's why I was confused.

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 12:54:56 AM

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Will your Dom be as strict as his father is?

Damn it. . . and I left my crystal ball in my other purse.

Sweet, what you really need to do is sit down and talk with your Dom. In what ways is his father strict? Is this something that you want? Is this something that he wants. It all comes down to negotiations and communication.

We are a bunch of strangers, some of us more opinionated than others, but there is no way that any of us can tell what the future holds for you or what someone's behaviour and demeanour will be in the future.

All things are possible. It is even concievable that this guy could have something traumatic happen to him that leaves him with PTSD and a submissive personality instead of a dominant one.

Talk to the guy, and give up on the tea leaves.

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 1:57:03 AM

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I say definitely maybe.

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 2:21:18 AM

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but then again, maybe not

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 4:48:23 AM

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So you have met, perhaps only on-line, someone claiming to be some sort of hereditary dominant, whose father has had (bestowed upon him?) the dreaded title of Master. Hummmm...

Something seems fishy to me.

While I have no doubt that some of the men and women raised in D/s homes go on to choose that kind of power relationship for themselves, and do, indeed, learn how that works, at least on some level, from observing how people in that situation relate to each other, that's a far cry from someone being taught how to be cruel by their dad as some sort of mentorship.

Do you have any reason to believe that what you are being told is true?

Another Susan (who sees a big ick factor in all of this)

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 4:57:03 AM

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Maybe He will be as strict as His father.. wow.. now isnt that just so decadant...yummy

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 8:59:15 AM

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I think it will be a hard question to answer...theres no way of knowing which way he will go..You need to ask Him...talk to him, thats the only way you'll find out what his preferences are

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RE: new Dom new Sub - 7/30/2006 6:08:14 PM

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I'm just having issues trying to understand the initial post: you are asking strangers specific questions about your Dom? He's the only one that can answer those.

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