needlesandpins
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ORIGINAL: needlesandpins Surely it's better when someone has looked at your profile and doesn't message you, rather than does look, and then messages you with inane nonsense that wastes the time of you both. What sort of deranged people are these? Needles I don't know .... I think, at bottom, it's about people not knowing how to transfer RT codes of behaviour to their internet equivalents. A better analogy might be: you go out walking in public, and your appearance is 'public' - other people are entitled to look at you. But if they come over and scrutinise you carefully from head to toe - that turns into an encroachment into what's more 'private' than 'public'. Our profiles here on CS are called 'public' but, well, for some, a person who has a good close read of a profile is entiering a 'private space'. Takes all sorts! It does indeed. I view that kind of contact etiquette as misplaced as the guys that think it's ok to send a dick pic as their opening introduction. I'm not going to get all offended that a guy checks me out some place but decides I'm really not his type, or picks up the vibe from me that I'm not interested, but I'd be pretty pissed off if a guy got his dick out in front of me. My ex playmate and I have been to a few 'play' clubs in London, but not with the intention of involving others. We've had guys and couples check us out, and approach us. Even there you have a level of manners that people seem to think don't apply online. Mind you, I guess my profile is just never going to be that intimate, or explicate, even if I were looking, that I'd feel 'violated' that someone had viewed my profile without contacting me. Hell, I think I have a huge amount that view me already on hide Needles I think it's because people fear that if they can see you IRL, then they can belt you one if you say any of the stuff that people seem to think blathering to people who can't retaliate makes them a manly badass on t'internet. (Or possibly that people who can actually get into a play party, rather than being told to fuck off and find a pub full of chavs instead, have better manners than some mouthbreather who they won't let in because all he's read about the fetish scene is Bizarre's annual articles on bullshitting your way into fetish nights wearing a check shirt and jeans...) Some people on here want to be seriously thankful that they haven't been stood in front of me the way they have behaved towards me. I would have flattened them! Needles
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