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Begging - 12/12/2017 5:40:02 PM   
ciecie


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It was suggested that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.

Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?



Thank you.
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RE: Begging - 12/12/2017 5:57:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ciecie


It was suggested that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.

Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?



Thank you.


If you really want it, it will come naturally. If your begging is 'boring', you haven't been properly motivated.

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RE: Begging - 12/13/2017 3:53:55 AM   
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Thank you, tamaka.

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RE: Begging - 12/14/2017 11:05:00 PM   
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Here’s a snippet from the Ownership & Possession site on the subject.

In a weblog post, Tanos gave the following recipe for begging:

Say what it is you're asking for. This is what it's all about.
Say why it's important to you. This makes your vulnerability about this more significant.
Say that it's entirely up to the dominant whether you get it.
Say "please". A lot. That says lack of status (very polite) and that the dominant has all the choice ("please" is short for "if it pleases you".)
Use the dominant's form of address (or name, as appropriate) to help stress the status differential.
Use any available physical way of stressing the status differential (kneeling, hands clasped, tears etc.)
Don't do anything resembling negotiation. You're not striking a bargain. You're making it look like the dominant has all the power. They'll like that ;)

Keep doing all that, in some kind of slightly random, Jazz improvisation sort of order, until they let you stop.

Here’s the link to the whole post. Good luck!

~porcelaine

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RE: Begging - 12/16/2017 6:28:06 PM   
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No idea, try asking the person you are begging, after all it is their opinion that matters.

smh

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RE: Begging - 12/21/2017 6:32:03 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ciecie


It was suggested that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.

Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?



Thank you.


It sounds like your master is a bad trainer if he can't enlighten you on how to beg the way he likes it.

When it comes to "begging", I am usually given very specific instructions on how to beg, like there is protocol on these stuffs and I get proper training on it by the dominant I am serving. And every guy likes it differently.


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RE: Begging - 12/21/2017 11:51:20 PM   
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Adult Dating - click here!

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RE: Begging - 12/22/2017 8:08:09 AM   
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I would ask the person who told you that. Ask them what it is they would like to hear? Many new people do not really know how to vocalize what they are experiencing at the time. It really helps to talk "outside" of play time to find out how to make play time better.

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