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Begging - 12/12/2017 5:42:37 PM

ciecie

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Hello,

I am new to the forums and would like to, respectfully, request some advice.

I am told that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.
Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?

Thank you.

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RE: Begging - 12/12/2017 6:54:03 PM

DesFIP

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Ask whoever told you this. Because you should not be expected to be a mind reader.

If he can’t tell you what turns him on, then he’s setting you up for failure. He needs to know what he enjoys and be able to teach it to you.

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RE: Begging - 12/13/2017 3:56:28 AM

emmey

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Ask whoever told you this. Because you should not be expected to be a mind reader.

If he can’t tell you what turns him on, then he’s setting you up for failure. He needs to know what he enjoys and be able to teach it to you.

Agreed.

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RE: Begging - 12/15/2017 1:11:06 PM

Focus50

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ciecie

I am new to the forums and would like to, respectfully, request some advice.

I am told that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.
Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?

A bit of context, please.

This begging bizzo, is it:
A. Something you're naturally inclined to do but it's turning your other off?

B. Something your other wants/expects you to do but you're doing it wrong?

My own preference is that begging is just not sexy at all. Can't believe I'm saying this but if push came to shove, I'd actually prefer she just act out a bit for attention rather than beg. It's the fastest, simplest & easiest way for her to find out what kinda mood I'm in.

If it's "B.", my superior self thinks it's your other who has self-esteem issues. If you're gut says you're uncomfortable catering to that, time to move on.

Otherwise, yeah, what Des said cos I got nuthin' in that department for you.

Focus.

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RE: Begging - 12/16/2017 10:05:48 PM

LTE

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ciecie

Hello,

I am new to the forums and would like to, respectfully, request some advice.

I am told that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.
Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?

Thank you.

Yes. Do so in heels.

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RE: Begging - 12/22/2017 8:56:31 AM

DocStrange

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ciecie

Hello,

I am new to the forums and would like to, respectfully, request some advice.

I am told that my begging is boring and/or not sexy.
Can anyone give me suggestions or ideas for begging in a sexy manner?

Thank you.

Sit down and talk with the person who told you that. Ask them how can I make my begging more sexy for you? Have a conversation outside of playtime. Many people when they first get started do not know how to really vocalize their desires. During play you are flooded with emotions. Talk to your partner on how to vocalize those feeling into something he/she wants to hear.

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