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popeye1250 -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 6:30:42 PM)

My former sub was a real "Nympho" and had no trouble at all orgasiming but she said that the orgasims that she had while tied were "much more intense" as opposed to vanilla.



SweetSerendipity -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 6:49:59 PM)

popeye,

Yes, for this girl it is more difficult when legs are tied. I am not sure why...I will have to ponder on that. Orgasams are waaaaaay more intense when bound. It is as if being bound offers more release...if that makes any sense?

Blessed Be



MmakeMme -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 9:00:58 PM)

Being physically bound is great but I prefer the psychological sort. "Put your hands here and your feet like this and do not move from this position or I will blister your ass."

~ shiver ~



popeye1250 -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 9:07:15 PM)

Serendipity, I've read psycology articles before that said that bondage, oe being bound removes the "guilt" of an orgasm, whatever that means.



mnottertail -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 9:13:48 PM)

considering the nerve ganglion there is no wizardry here......men make the back and forth motion to pump blood, tense up, and relax, women and or men will feel more comfort wrapped in something to restrict movement.  This is why you dim lights and swaddle babies (especailly those with colic and restrict or habitualize environments, sorry Virginia, there is no santa claus but if you wanna believe it is true..........)

What the problem is, is that someone may find simple human socio-pathic and political and yadda-yadda-yadda thought beneath focus.

Folks is folks.........

It is what it is.......is you wanting what it is?

Ron



tigerlilies69 -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 9:38:09 PM)

i would have to agree with some of the earlier posts.  being "tied" or just restrained by my Master's hands for that matter makes everything that much more intense and erotic.  it is especially good when blindfolded before being tied up so that the sensory deprevation comes from multiple angles.



Archer -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 11:05:57 PM)

There is chapter in LeatherFolk by Mike Thompson that delves into 4 different types of bondage experiences and what lies behind them and what several kinds of people get out of the experiences.

I'm not at home with the book at had or I'd give small symopsises.

But you can find the book easily enough online, or at a kink frendly book store.

In Leather

Archer



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (7/31/2006 11:18:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Serendipity, I've read psycology articles before that said that bondage, oe being bound removes the "guilt" of an orgasm, whatever that means.

For many many MANY subs, being forced, or unable to resist does give them a great amount of permission and can sidestep the guilt they would otherwise feel for having to take personal responsibility for what they are doing.  They don't have to think about it, or the consequences, they are just there and helpless.

For me, bondage has nothing to do with releiving guilt or giving myself permission to do what I want.



SweetSerendipity -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (8/1/2006 5:01:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Serendipity, I've read psycology articles before that said that bondage, oe being bound removes the "guilt" of an orgasm, whatever that means.


Popeye,


Interesting point. I have felt guilt over many things, these days usually for eating chocolate or not exercising...but never for having an orgasm.
I think when I am bound I cannot escape the release required for an orgasm, I tend to be multi orgasmic (many many thanks to my maker for that bonus!) and the intensity is overwhelming to me. So, I tend to avoid the extreme intensity...especially as they build upon one another. It is almost like I cannot stand it anymore...but then with a persistent partner, I find that I can. I may lose the ability to communicate or string two thoughts together...but as it has been proven to me, I can always have one more orgasm.
Blessed Be





popeye1250 -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (8/1/2006 10:25:35 AM)

L.A. yes, I think you're right about that aspect. It's more "psychological" and the phisical aspect of being bound compliments the psychological aspect.



popeye1250 -> RE: The Bondage Dynamic (8/1/2006 10:30:40 AM)

Serendipity, yes, I agree with that as well.
And like you said there always one more orgasm, that's why I like forced orgasms.
While bound a sub or slave will have as many orgasms as (I) want her to have and only when I want her to have them so I like that dynamic as well.
Also there's the aspect of orgasm denial for an hour or so.
Now (that) can add a whole other dimension.



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