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Byrdie -> Trolling, baiting, negging, and getting yelled at as a kink? (12/13/2022 7:05:24 AM)
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Since it's been so quiet here, I've been looking at older threads and seen a fair amount started by people who were acting as trolls. However, when I went to their profiles each one identified as a submissive man looking for dominant women.
Yoinks ago, back when the site was named CollarMe, a guy DMed me with a barrage of insults. I cussed him out and blocked him. He immediately contacted me from an entirely different profile that he'd already had set up to let me know how hot that was and how he'd been looking for a dominant to really curse him out. He was initiating un-negotiated, unconsensual play with women through insults, and then tried to keep it rolling after revealing his ruse.
He was very unhappy when I reasoned that since technically he was topping me by attempting to control my reactions, and that the only way I could dominate him was to not react to him. He kept trying to bait me and I blocked him. He even tried stalking me in chat, and since there was no way I could find to block him there and still chat with others, I never used the chat function here again.
I've since received the odd negging-type message from men, and I respond asking if they're into being verbally smacked down by dommes (with the additional statement that while I'm trying not to kink shame, that really isn't my thing). The responses I get are either:
* complete silence
* a shocked denial, wondering why would I ever think such a thing
My best friend told me about a type of porn in the 70s that I've yet to be able to identify that involved an enraged dominant woman, often literally jumping up and down with fury and screeching at the top of her lungs. Has anyone ever heard of this type of porn? If so, what's the term for it?
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